Re: THEY HATE ME!!!!!!!
Whatever you do, don't move anywhere near the in-laws. Oh, and you might want to put everything you agree on doing and not doing, in writing and make it part of the nikkah.
Personally, I would not go for it in a sitaution like that you described. Boys who like living down the street from their parents when the parents do not have any particular medical situation, etc...its just not good news.