Friends and love-ones are supposed to care for you, love you and comfort you, when you are in need and vice versa of course.
But, how many of you got people close to you, who are not good for you. They don´t remember your birthday, the don´t call you for ages, they might not even be there, when you need them. But one day they can do a little tiny thing for you, and suddenly that´s everything. When you meet them, you can feel a certain bonding, a chemistry, perfect vibes. Whatever was before, and whatever is going to happen, is not important. Just that very moment matters.
I´ve got a friend like that;I´ve known him since I was a tiny kid, and I haven´t heard from him for ages, we meet once in a while, and its always a coincidence. But everytime we meet, we can talk for hours and hours, like we haven´t done anything else all our lives. It´s a wonderful feeling to have a friend like that.
Then there´s another kind of liking. Sometimes you bump into complete strangers. But they´ve just got “it”, a little gesture, a move, an “adaa” , that makes you like them.
Have you ever experienced that? ( and I don´t mean just boy&girl thing )
Yeah.. i understand wut u mean… i got sum real ol frends too.. i know them since our skool… n lately we r not in contact or n e thin.. but whnever i meet her .. its like we’ve neevr been apart … infact we get more chummy then with frends i already hav…its weird i know… but we do hav a special bond between us… n distance or time can’t make it rusty… …
*I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge.
*That myth is more potent than history.
*That dreams are more powerful than facts.
*That hope always triumphs over experience.
*That laughter is the only cure for grief.
*And I believe that love is stronger than death.
[This message has been edited by Mystery Gal (edited November 25, 2000).]
Yea...know what u r talkin bout Ramis...have a friend i've known since kindergarden...don't get to c him very often, but when i do, it's somethin...n in all honesty, we haven't done anything outstanding for each other...just that talkin makes the bond b/w us. :)
**~* It is difficult to say what is impossible, for the dream of yesterday is the hope of today and the reality of tomorrow... ~*
I can see a that you´ve got friends like that, and like me most of your friends like that, you´ve known for ages. But how about the second case, total strangers, that you just happen to like, and you don´t know why?
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Originally posted by Ramis: I can see a that you´ve got friends like that, and like me most of your friends like that, you´ve known for ages. But how about the second case, total strangers, that you just happen to like, and you don´t know why?
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hmmm...yea...that happens 2...it has to me, i'll admit that...dunno why though...n don't really care why, cuz it's all good...no harm in expanding the social circle a lil :)
**~* It is difficult to say what is impossible, for the dream of yesterday is the hope of today and the reality of tomorrow... ~*
That happens a lot to me. I don't necessarily feel that way about everyone I meet but people always feel that way when they meet me. It's strange cause I don't do anything intentional.
it just happens...
its just them and u, i guess u can call it chemistry.. kinda scary cos u dont know y u like them and all of a sudden u realise they mean so much to u and its like crazy!!!
and yes i also have a friend who has hurt me, always forgotten my birthday and all it takes is one phone call to make up.. weird haina...
then theres my friends i havent seen for yrs and when one of us makes the effort to call usually her!! ;) we chat for ages.. nice to have nice friends!!!! :)
"do not be jealous in any way of those things which Allah has granted more freely to some of you than to others; to men is alloted what they earn, and to women what they earn. (4:32)
[This message has been edited by miss cinderella (edited November 27, 2000).]
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