Therki Baabay

[Adeel25]

@Jaanwar

I have seen quite many very serious issues discussed here - pedophiles, rapists, abusers, stalkers, creeps, freaks and so on. What I couldnt find was something about the sleazy old farts. We all know they exist, they breed, and they hunt.

I will share my experience here - father of a lady friend of mine who unlike her father was a sweetheart. That old bugger seemed like a nice old man, always smiling, the jolly ol’ man kind of outlook, and always uttering ‘beta ji, beta ji’, yet without exaggeration there was not a single girl friend of his own daughter that he had spared. He would come on to nearly any girl that would enter his house - the way he approached them was again ‘beta jani’, then acting to be a warm fatherly figure - he would hug and touch them as much as he could. No, I’m not judging him on that basis alone, he did come on to many girls his daughter’s age, she knew it and we did discuss that AND many of her friends freaked out and never visited the house again.

Modus ope***** of these predators is to use their ‘warm and friendly old man’ image to bring their target into the comfort zone and then gradually make the move. And the worst part is that they get away with it every time.

Now, what is important is awareness - the younger girls should be aware of the very scary fact that no man is to be trusted just because his hair have turned grey or hair on their tind have gone with the wind. Many men are sleaze balls and it only aggravates with age. No matter how comfortable an old geezer makes you feel around him, no matter how cool and lively an uncle seems to be, BEWARE and keep a safe distance.

Unnecessary skepticism might be unhealthy, but awareness and protection is crucial.

Well Thank God that he didnt become o.p.e.r.a.n.d.i child molester. There are many cases like this. And worst.

May Allah pure their heart and mind out of filthiness.