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she didnt seem interesting to him....
She may be attractive and highly educated...but perhaps he didn't feel any chemistry or compatibility with her. Maybe he felt there was little in common...the conversation didn't flow...etc etc. The "wow" factor will differ for everyone...I don't think there's a standard definition for it.
That's what I was thinking. I reckon he just didn't feel any spark with her.. which is fair enough..
Icon …something on his mind , like what ? 
I thought friends share everything …no secrets :pcg:***
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***So like most of you are saying …and again probably what I imagined too is that He did not feel that “Spark”…
…but the question remains that if a person has agreed to have his marriage arranged by his family how much room can he actually allow for feeling anything for a potential candidate that he is likely to meet once or at best twice before finalizing the “Deal” so to speak…
Don’t u think its more of being forced into an arranged marriage and hoping to fall in love at first sight with the proposed partner …not that there is anything wrong with that except that once can’t feel love or anything akin to that feeling in forced circumstances…
^If he/she is 'the one' you tend to feel the spark verrrrry quick.. like within minutes (or seconds!).. I felt it with the guy I'm engaged to as soon as I saw him, it was literally like an instant pull..
Not everyone is after that obviously but most ppl nowadays, regardless of whether the match is love or arranged, are looking for someone special, not just someone they think is 'ok' and has the right job, family background or whatever like our parents generation..
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^ I agree with Deeba though I am not engaged but I think usually the two people feel an instant spark which I think nothing has to do with looks, money or what not. I guess its truly a mind and body connection. Alot of people say things just clicked.
She may be attractive and highly educated...but perhaps he didn't feel any chemistry or compatibility with her. Maybe he felt there was little in common...the conversation didn't flow...etc etc. The "wow" factor will differ for everyone...I don't think there's a standard definition for it.
yah...dats well said.
There are certains guys things.
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The "WOW" factor is similar to the "IT" factor. Not everyone has it. It's what makes certain people stand out from others in a crowd...it's what makes someone special.
Its basically someone people like, listen to and remember. If you are easily forgotten or don't have the ability to make instant connections and make friends with anyone that crosses your path (to the point where people are intrigued by you) then you dont have the "wow" or "it" factor.
The one girl I know that I think probably does posses the "it" factor is not even beautiful...she is short, fat and not good looking...but she has more of the "it" factor than any other person I have ever met. She is just so talented and so confident and interesting...that automatically everyone she meets...LOVES her.
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sheyny sheyn sheyn ... the wow factor is the waddi bright eyes and the cute smile ... trust me thats how it works
I was thinking the same thing…
Not everyone has it. It's what makes certain people stand out from others in a crowd...it's what makes someone special.
I think that some people have more charisma than others....and that charisma can either have a positive or negative impact.
And I think that since the "wow" factor is so subjective, one person's "blaah" can be another person's "wow."