The women in your life

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

 One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name

 One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

treating her with respect, caring about her well-being and happiness, showing her that she matters. It means being faithful to her, honest with her, being there for her. It means going the extra mile to show her that you’re thinking about her.Treat the woman in your life with respect. It means putting her in high regard no matter who she is and where she came from

But not many guys understand this

Please appreciate HER …

Re: The women in your life

abh to itne thread khul chukay hein iss APPRECIATE HER pe ke lugta hai...khuda ko #2 place pe lana paray ga..itna to khuda ko appreciate karnay pe zoor nahe diya jata jitna aurat ki pooja pe shoor machaya jata hai.

Acha abhi tu is ko sarha nahi giya sirf sarahny ki baat hoi aap ko aag lag gai. Han Mard ju khuda bany hoy hain on ki pooja tu nazar hi nahi aati aap ko:p

Re: The women in your life

^
tumharay abba jee gher mein khuda hain kia?
tumhari amma jee ko abba je ne seraha nahe kabhi?

Re: The women in your life

^ Han woh bhi tumhary jaisy khiyalat hi rakhty hai waisy:p

whaaaaaaaaaaat ever! :snooty:

:k:

Ummm Kafi taraki kar li hum Khawateen ne....MashAllah. I appeciate all of em.

Wesye b taraki to karni hi thi...aurtun ne duniya main nisaaf se ziada jo hen :)

ohh…such a nice thread…atlast sumone thought about it!.:salute:..i shud save it as it will b useful in future 2 pass it 2 sum1!!:phati:

Re: The women in your life

nice. :k:

Re: The women in your life

Very sweet Laffy!!! I like!

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Lafanter :wub:

Excellent stuff. :lifey: