The wedding

will be either this coming February or July for sure. The mother in law was over in UK and accompanied her elder son to Ummrah. The sons wife, fiances bhabi, brought me back a … jilbab.

I told her i don’t wear one ( which she knows considering she has lived in the same town for the last 10 years ). Anyhows, i don’t find it so much rude of myself in refusing to accept the gift as stupidity on their part in bringing it in the first place.

:slight_smile:

get here a really mini “mini skirt” .

p,s is moi invited :hoonh:

who's wedding??....yours??

What is a Jilbab babes? Something like a burqha ?

congrads for the upcoming wedding if its urs..

dont be upset...
i guess they went too saudia for umrah so thats y she got u that.. Im sure she doesnt expect u to wear it jus cuz she got it..
I dont think u should take it as sumhin rude on thier part.. a gift is a gift.. no matter what.. atleast she thought of u to get sumthin for u.. u kno..

jus my 2 cents

mubarak ho DD :flower1:

:hug:

Allah tumhein khush rakhay :flower1:

Re: The wedding

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Originally posted by *Disco~Duck: *
will be either this coming February or July for sure. The mother in law was over in UK and accompanied her elder son to Ummrah. The sons wife, fiances bhabi, brought me back a ... jilbab.

I told her i don't wear one ( which she knows considering she has lived in the same town for the last 10 years ). Anyhows, i don't find it so much rude of myself in refusing to accept the gift as stupidity on their part in bringing it in the first place.

:)
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what is jilbab????

i think she might’ve meant to type hijab :konfused:

hey congrats :)

Wow a wedding..congrats DD you're one lucky lady :)

I think a Jilbab is one one those long gown type things that are worn with a hijab. Correct me if I'm wrong.

Wow DD, didn't realise you were getting hitched so soon. Don't read too much into the present though, its a nice gesture that they thought to get you something and when people go to Umrah these are the kind of things they tend to bring back due to the absence of Topshop in Saudi.

Jilbab is what shahreen said... aka as a burkha.

Yeah guys, the time is drawing near.

regift it back to them a couple of years later, DD. They probably have so many that they would never know anyway.

hey DD dont worry girl, dont think much about it .. yet u might think tht ur fiances bhabi was tryin to mke a point or sumthin..

but u on ur part take it lightly, as sumone has already mentioned ppl usually bring hijabs n jilbaabs from saudi, one of my relatives brought back me a jilbaab even though he knew tht i dont wear one, i accepted it without havin a second thought, its kool to hve one, koi pata nhi kub kahaan kin logon se chupna parh jaaye :wink:

i know u might think of the gesture in a different light as u are soon to be married into tht family, but chill all will be fine :flower1: hugs

wedding,mubarkaaan:bhangra:
i hope u have a lovely life filled with happiness & love.:kiss:

jilbabs are nice, atleast you’ll have something for a religious gathering :slight_smile:

and congrats ducky :flower1:

DD, many congrats in advance! I think you did the right thing if you refused politely, which I am sure you did.

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You don't refuse a gift no matter what it is. It just isn't polite. :-)

But ofcourse its your choice whether you want to wear it or not. Are your inlaws religious? What was their reaction on your refusal?

hmmm

what about Bhabhi ? Did she wear Jilbab ?

oh haN mubarak ho :flower1: