Re: The way I see me and the way others see me
There is no number 5 according to the proverb and personally I agree with the absence of a 5th self. I believe each of us (to varying degrees) is dishonest with ourselves about who/what we are.
Most of us call ourselves flawed/imperfect humans and recognize we’re got the ability for betterment. But despite admitting it to ourselves, we don’t see always see our flaws as flaws.