I am branching this thread off of the “the one…” thread here..http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/418384-the-one.html
So, gentlemen how do you know someone is “the two” or “the three” or “the four”
Re: the two three and four
Because she's a skank looking for a sugar daddy.
Re: the two three and four
oh crap that reminds me I need to register a multinick shakkar abbu.
actually PCG..there is a deeper meaning behind my post. :)
Re: the two three and four
Well, you can ask Lady Gaga aka Law Student Hijabi with Theen Bachay how she picked her second, third, and fourth. What better playa to take lessons from.
Shakar Abbu.
LOL!!!
Re: the two three and four
I forgive and forget and move on, so what she did is in past, no real use wasting energy on that, hopefully she will be able to turn a new leaf if nothing else for the sake of her kids.
anyways so the point was, when we talk about 'the one' as in the thread i noted, there is an assumption that that individual is the soulmate or person you are meant to be with.
so what does it mean for ppl who get married to more than one person, is there no love?
secondly..how does a married person who is in love fall in love with someone else?
oh btw..i know our usual flamers may try to take this and run with it, but guys, be ready to be booted without warning for some some cheap antics :) yeah yeah i read your minds before you even show up here foolios
Two would be when one is not good enough, three would be when two are not good enough and so on…
This is hilarious Okay you can sing it like Miley Cyrus’s song “he could be the fourth one, he could be the fifth one”
Here is the orignal song
If you find a ‘second’, it probably means ‘the one’ was not ‘the one’ and ‘the second’ might just be a figment of your imaginations as ‘the one’ was but didn’t turn out you wanted ‘the one’ to be.
Re: the two three and four
see if your first one dies … the soul is gone … and so is your mate. so then you need to find a new one 
cuz at any given time, there should be a soul mate floating around
as for falling in love while your mate is still alive 
see … there can never be a Mr Right or a Ms Right. you search for a while, and when ami abbu start tanofying about you not getting married, then you settle in with the best possible Mr Right available at that point in time (or because your hormones are kicking in, and you will without him/her, as GS proves). and then it is your duty to not look elsewhere, and lower you gaze bla bla … why? becuz your Mr Right could STILL be out there. ghostly sounds
but people who fall in love for the heck of falling in love while in a marriage with someone else already … SICK! …
with guys: what you cant have, is what you must put your entire effort in attaining.
Yes, there is an assumption that the ‘one’ is a person with whom you’ll (obviously not you personally) will have a feeling of natural affinity, love, compatibility etc etc
I think for the people that get married to more than one person, perhaps they feel love or did at one point, and now being with the other person is just a form of companionship. Perhaps there is something lacking in the first marriage that they seek from another marriage??
It also depends on how the individual themselves sees love…they may say ‘if you love me, you’ll let me get married again for my own happiness’ blah blah blah
Your second question?? They don’t love the first person in the first place! Or its not the can’t live without you ever, etc etc love. :hmmm:
I guess it boils down to what ‘love’ means to each individual! Ask everyone what they think ‘love’ means and everyone will have a different answer! (or I think so anyway).
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