The trials of Alpna Patel

Canadian Guppies in particular might remember this most dreadful murder - it received massive coverage on CBC (who had initially been attracted to this along the lines of wanting to portray an arranged marriage). Anyways, the lady at the centre of it is back at home in Saskatoon, Canada, having served 18 months of a jail sentence.

Scary to even read stuff like this.

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The trials of Alpna Patel, CBC, May 2003

It was an arranged marriage portrayed in a CBC documentary as a happy event in the lives of two young people doing what tradition had taught them. But it ended with the death of the husband and two long murder trials of the wife.

Alpna Amin lived most of her life in Saskatoon. She was raised in North American culture, but held closely to the traditional values of her Hindu parents. They came to Canada from India and, like so many Canadians, instilled a deep connection to tradition in their daughter.

So after she had her profession in hand, this dentist decided that she would like to get married in a traditional, arranged Indian ceremony.

She and her family found her a perfect husband in Viresh Patel. He was a medical student from Buffalo, N.Y. They married in May 1998.

“I could just tell that there was definitely something between us, some kind of chemistry, I guess you could call it, between the two of us. And I just knew somehow that she was the one,” Viresh Patel said at the time of the wedding.

The honeymoon ended quickly and Alpna Patel found herself living in Buffalo with her in-laws while her new husband began a medical residency in Baltimore.

"I went into this marriage with dreams and with hopes and with the thought of this being the one and only marriage, as most people do," she says today.

Alpna had also been raised to be a strong-minded, modern, independent woman and this eventually led to clashes with her traditional Hindu father-in-law. She says that he treated her as nothing more than a household servant.

“He was very dictatorial, very controlling, very demanding and just incredibly interfering,” she now says of her father-in-law. “I think he just had issues with control. He had to have everybody in the palm of his hand and he didn’t allow anybody any freedom to think or to do what they wanted.”

Alpna Patel thought her father-in-law bullied his wife and monitored everybody’s actions. He explained it as just being protective. “I lived in America for the last 30 years,” Nandlal Patel told the National Magazine in 2000. “All my children are born in America. I know how we work here. So it is not dictatorship. I do provide a proper guide. I do help the kids.”

When Alpna said she wanted to accompany her mother-in-law on her regular trips to Baltimore to visit Viresh, she was denied. So Patel took matters into her own hands and went to visit her husband with a list of 39 concerns she had about the situation. When she arrived, she says, she pleaded with Viresh to address her concerns in an effort to save the marriage. She intended to go back to Saskatoon if something wasn’t done.

What happened next is now the stuff of courtroom drama. According to what Alpna Patel told police and repeated several times in testimony, she awoke to find her husband straddling her and holding a knife to her throat. She described a physical confrontation that ended with her husband bleeding on the floor.

Patel was charged with murder and a legal odyssey ensued. Nine months later, in January of 2000, Patel’s murder trial began in Baltimore. One of her lawyers set himself the task of presenting a conflict of cultures, one that ended with a young woman locked into a repressive life with a family that would not allow her the freedoms a western life had given her.

“People need to understand a lot of the cultural subtleties in this case to be able to make a judgment in this matter,” lawyer Chirag Patel (no relation) said. “I mean, it’s not a typical western situation or western marriage. I mean there’s elements of both East and West in the case, and that’s going to all play out in the days ahead.”

In the end, a jury made up of 11 women and one man could not decide on whether Alpna Patel was guilty of murder. The only man on the jury held out at giving Patel a complete acquittal. The jury remained deadlocked and the case had to be retried. Seven months later, another defence attorney attempted to pick up where the last case left off. This time, the prosecution trimmed down its case and rested far earlier than the defence had expected.

“I was caught flat-footed when he rested very quickly in the trial, to be quite honest with you,” says Alpna Patel’s second defence lawyer, Ed Smith. “I thought they’d put in more evidence.” After three days of deliberation, the jury of 10 women and two men came back with a guilty verdict on the charge of voluntary manslaughter, or intentional killing without premeditation.

She was sentenced to three years in a Baltimore jail.

Maryland Judge John Prevas hears about 40 trials a year and says he won’t soon forget this one. “It has such compelling human interest. I empathize with her. I empathize with him and his family,” he says. “It was gripping. Two very nice people trying to make a wonderful marriage and all of a sudden one’s dead and the other is going whoops!”

On the basis of comments made by the prosecutor in his closing arguments, Alpna Patel launched her appeal. It would take two years and Patel would be out on parole, but those statements were enough for a judge to call Patel’s second trial into question.

“Poor, oppressed Alpna Patel: credit cards, airplane tickets, driving places, Toronto, Florida, Canada. Poor little rich girl. Poor little rich girl,” were the comments that were vociferously objected to by the defence. They were enough for a judge to send the case back for a retrial.

Four years after having what has been described as a fairy tale wedding, after two murder trials and 18 months in jail, Alpna Patel finally returned to Saskatoon. She describes her time in jail as the most difficult of her life. “You don’t even believe it’s occurring,” she says, “and, obviously, I was extremely fearful. That entire time was nothing but dark.”

“We felt like we lost everything,” says her father Dev Amin. “We had no control over our own child. It was like something of your own person being taken away from you without any authority.”

A Baltimore assistant state attorney, Larry Doan, regrets the mistrial decision, but finally, after four months, decided that trying Patel again would not obtain any more justice than had already been meted out.

“Clearly if the prosecutor had not made the comments he made you’d have a conviction that stood,” Doan says, “There’s no more time that she could be given in a third trial and it was the feeling here that we had received as much justice as we were going to get from the process.”

Patel says that Maryland purposely delayed its decision not to retry the case. “I think they deliberately wanted to cause me hardship and cause me difficulty in obtaining my justice because they knew they made a mistake, but they were too lame to admit their mistake and so they just kept on perpetuating it and drawing and delaying out the justice.”

Baltimore Sun reporter Tim Craig says that the case ended as it should. “It kind of ended like you’ll never know. And in some way that may be appropriate, considering the circumstances, that you’ll never know because it’s not a clear-cut case. So perhaps in some way it ended in the best possible way.”

Judge John Prevas has fewer doubts about what happened the night Viresh Patel died. “Turn down the sound and just look at the physical facts, the placement of the glasses, the placement of the blood and her skill as a doctor in terms of the placement of the wound. I was finally convinced she stabbed first. She wasn’t fending off an attack from a heavier man. So if that’s the case… was justice done?”

Alpna has a renewed spirituality and has strengthened ties to her culture and traditions. “I still don’t regret the time I had with my husband,” she says. “I loved him very much and I think we had a great marriage.”

How very sad! I feel sorry for both of them, regardless of who struck first. The poor girl suffered for four years subjagation and the guy lost his life, and I'm sure it wasn't easy for him to be pulled from 2 directions, the father saying life is one way and wife pleading that life like this cannot continue.

I guess we will never know what really happened that night. According to the Judge's statement towards the end of the article, the evidence pointed towards the fact that she attacked him first. Then again, she claims he was attacking her and she was just defending herself. We will never know.

I guess it's important to find out as much as you can about the family you are marrying into before any final commitments are made. You never really know what people are like though until you live with them.

My sympathies go to the parents on both sides of the conflict. One set have to bury their son while the others can do nothing but watch their daughter sent to jail. Sad indeed.

The girl is a murderer and a liar as well. I dont believe her at all. You can't kill someone you love so much, Period. In the end, It was the guy who lost his life and had to suffer while he lived.

I cant believe that some of you are sympathising with her. she clearly got away with murder.

Thanks Muni, Mehnaz and Asif.

i would hope no one is sympathizing with the actions that she committed. Of course she is clearly in the wrong. There can be no ifs ands or buts regarding that.

i don't believe that she ever intended to carry this out - you have to have viewed the entire documentary on tv to realize how deeply she was looking forward to this marriage. i mean she struck me as a 'typical' desi laRki, all excited about her marriage. Did she 'love' the guy? (Bear in mind, i think they had three months in which to get to 'know' each other, prior to the actual date of the marriage). Of course i am not one to judge whether she truly 'loved' him. From what i saw, i think she believed herself to be in love with the guy quite a bit.

It really made me so sad when i first heard about this years ago. As Mehnaz rightly stated, one feels sorry for both parents in this issue - the parents of the son, who have forever to live with the knowledge that their son has died before them. The parents of the daughter as well, though - because, although now she has returned to Saskatoon, the entire family will always have to live with the stigma associated with this. The girl's father seemed soooooo nice when they interviewed him - i felt so sorry for him. He was crying his eyes out.

i don't know - i just find it extremely sad for everyone concerned. Only Allah knows whether or not she committed this as an act of premeditated homicide, or whether it was truly self-defense. Whatever it is, she will have to carry this episode with her for the rest of her life. That, surely, must be punishment enough.

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Whatever it is, she will have to carry this episode with her for the rest of her life. That, surely, must be punishment enough.
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Would you (and rest of the world) have felt and reacted same way If the Guy had survived and the Girl was found dead ?

She abused the entire eastern Culture to get herself out of the Jail :-

*"People need to understand a lot of the cultural subtleties in this case to be able to make a judgment in this matter," lawyer Chirag Patel (no relation) said. "I mean, **it's not a typical western situation or western marriage. I mean there's elements of both East and West in the case, **and that's going to all play out in the days ahead." *

Everytime I hear such a case, it becomes an East thing where all the men are MCPs who suppress their wives and Daughters-in-law. After all east is the place where women are forced to do a 'SATI'. We treat our women as slaves and blah blah blah.

Asif, I don't think Nadia is saying that she sympathizes with the girl (and just for the record, neither was I).

I think what Nadia is saying is that this girl has to live with what she did to her husband and will have to deal with the 'shame' she's brought on herself and her family. She'll be treated differently from society as a whole. That in itself is a form of punishment.

Think of it this way, if she went to jail, she would be isolated and not looked upon with disgust to the same extent that she will receive from the rest of the society in the outside 'free' world. I do not believe that she got away scott free because she didn't get a jail sentence. Her life and her future experiences with others .... any potential future relationships ....any time she tries to get a job .... will always this black cloud hanging over her and haunting her.

^MehnazQ - My question is still answered, Let me ask it again :-

"Would you (and rest of the world) have felt and reacted same way If the Guy had survived and the Girl was found dead ?"

My point is not that she got away with the murder/Punishment or why you are sympathising with her. My point is why do we have to bring the Eastern Culture and paint the 'FATHER-in-LAW' as an evil, control freak.

That's wrong. This lady was brought up in Western Culture, she had the freedom to chose a guy from either cultures, she chose an Indian Patel family. If the eastern world is so bad and we bully our women, then why the hell she married the brownie Patel ?

I agree with Asif, reactions would most likely be different if the tables were turned.

if this was an american case.. cultural stereotypes would not even come into consideration... the laci peterson murder.. i dint hear about any cultural issues that drove him to kill her.. yet if it has to do with the asian subcontinent.. behind every evil motive is the culture....

looks liek the father in law and arranged marriage is somehow plays a role of justifyin the murder..

what i see is
1. she was at the hotel with complains
2. he was on top of her with a knife.. (why dint he jus kill her in her sleep instead of givin her time to wake up
3. she somehow managed to escape the (physically larger man .. implied in the article) and somehow find a way to stab him as well...

i smell sumthin fishy fishyyyyyyyyyyyyy