PCG even girls raised in burger town aren't like girls compared to here. It is not about who is better or who is a "slut" it is about preference. You cannot convince me other because i say these things because i know what i am talking about. I grew up with girls here and i know their mind sets. Now dont get me wrong here. I am not talking about girls who are total fobs or who came here 2 years ago im talking about girls who are born here and think totally like American girls. PCG sorry if you haven't been kissed but i am sure if you had a boyfriend and your parents found out you went out on dates with him surely they would not like it. It is our culture and we must respect it!
The question is not how one should react to a boyfriend. It is - do American-born desis do that more than Pakistani-borns?
The day I meet a guy, talk to him, and I am sure I am compatible with him (you can call that sneaking around with a boyfriend, but that's not the same image I have in mind), then I will involve my parents, and they'll prolly be very happy for me. But then, I don't think that's how people function who were brought up in Pakistan.
Mind you, the three guys I've spoken to in the past, 2 of them were raised in Pakistan and brough over here, and 1 of them was raised in Europe...it was the 2 that were raised in Pakistan that refused to meet my parents. Just showed that their intention was not pure from day 1. So, really, who's more whore-ish? The Pakistanis of America? Really?