Re: the TALK!
yes i would---because i think it is just unfair--see if there is a legit reason for why a set of parents is dependant on the kids---health, finances one can justify--and if they are fair--just like they are my husband parents they are parents of the other two sons as well---been married for 12 years--and up until now we have been held responsible for the sons as well---indirectly--like creating jobs for them at my husband companies, they have always just called us for money and again borrowing is not a term in this family it is just give and take and i have never said a single word---or shown attitude---but even my silence they have taken or accused me of disrespecting them----
i have no problem if they rotate or go visit back and forth to paki --but they simply don't even go visit anyone here--i do everything and i mean everything for them----necessities, to wants!! you name them i do them---i have done more for them that their three sons combined--and still ia m the bad one well then i feel like i am only human and only capable of so much---i got to look after my kids...