Re: the TALK!
WJ all i will say is that put urself in ur husbands situtation and would u have reacted the same way if ur parents had come to live wid u, think bout it, as far as ur PILs go well they should understand a lil too that u guys are grownups and that u need ur time too but for this to happen u have to speakup but not in an offensive way instead just as u would convey this to ur parents. Ur husband is in a spot at the moment and he needs ur support and trust me u r in a better position to standup and say this then ur husband. As far as taking control of the house goes well ........ that is a touchy topic cant say much but again there has to be a compromise from both sides.
my 2 cents.
And yeah btw some ppl comin to threads and bashing those threads, please refrain from responding on topics u don like, don just bash threads as ppl post here in hope of getting a decent suggestion specific to their case.