Re: The Tablighis
kami yaar, let's put it this way; nothing can happen in this world without the will and command of Allah. If Allah brings some-one to your doorsteps who ONLY wants to rehearse you the greatness of Allah for the sake of Allah and want absolutely nothing back in return - it's only because Allah looks at you with His mercy. Mind you, that people in the work of dawah are only there to remind themselves about Allah by rehearsing his greatness.
Now, whether you open your door or not for whatever reason, at the end it's up to you; likewise, you choose to rebuff or listen to the talk of Allah - based on the reasoning which makes more sense to you. Now, does Allah need human or anyone per se, it's the other way around. So, the only one to benefit is us whether we are giving dawah or receiving it
well abdullah in that case its is Allah's will that I dont talk to these guys.
I am not questioning their beliefs, intentions, or sincerity (although many do)
I am simply suggesting that they be a little mindful of other people's commitments
what do you expect me to do when someone comes over and I am taking care of a sick relative? or if I am preparing for an exam in 14 hours? or if I am packing for a flight in 4 hours? what if I am not well...there are many reasons a person can not entertain even friends, let alone strangers who have ust showed up.
what is such a big deal in giving ppl a quick call and saying we are coming over. Okay fine, they did not have the sense or decency to call, but just showed up. Now when you are telling them politely that I appreciate you being here but I can not talk to you..whatever reason you may have, they just insist on coming i and that they will only take a few minutes, and just dont leave even when you say, excuse me but I really need to go now, or I really ought to get back to what I was doing.
the question is not with what they are doing but how. It is a small courtesy for them to call, it shows respect for the person they want to see. A good positive start to communication.
If they are not taking the advise and insist on violating common ettiquettes, then they are unknowingly or knowingly hurting their own cause and work.