Mehnaz, you're doing an excellent job holding this place together. My comment wasn't intended toward you, but rather the members in general. I'm sure the rest will agree.
It's not the insults that are Cafe-like, but some of the material that gets posted here.
a) stop copy-pasting topics from other places
b) have one original thought
c) stop thinking about doing it as soon as you are legally married
d) stop thinking about doing it
e) just do a quick search on the topic already discussed
and if all else fails…just watch more pr0n. seriously…aik hi cheez ab ghis pit gayi hai