the rishta process- demands

[Siren]

Re: the rishta process- demands

@preciousheera

Don’t want to be a party poorer but all these “demands” do my head in!! Because of these silly "demands"as there called, all 3 of my sister in-laws are single and still “looking” for the one. There all older than me and are all a 4/10 looking for a 11/10!!! they have pretty much rejected decent and promising rishtas out of arrogance and complete stupidity.
Ok lets imagine that one of my sis in laws bags herself her tall, handsome, rich non smoking, non drinking, happy clappy, sporty, world travelling, athlete of a man and somehow decides to marry her, what if 4 years down the line this absolutely gorgeous man turns into a burping, lazy, smoking, fat snobby, grumpy old man? what is she going to do then??

See that’s why a person needs to have an appropriate view of themselves. I have an uncle like that. He’s a cardiac surgeon but he’s a bit chubby and pretty average looking. He also has a beard which makes him look much older than he is. When it was time for him to get married, he was dead-set on getting a gorgeous girl. I was only a little girl then, but I remember my mom trying to talk to him about it to make him understand how unreasonable he was being by rejecting everyone. Eventually though, he did end up marrying a very pretty girl (I suspect because my grandma is very well off and highly respected in society and I supopose it didn’t hurt that he’s a doctor either)…I guess everyone has their pitfalls…