the rice throwing thing at rukhsati ...

well nice that you’ve raised your daughter like so, and she doesnt have to grow up posting such questions at GS, and being mocked at :k:

i dont believe in many things my mother does, as i’ve said before … but because i’ve grown up with something, it takes time to detach oneself from any such belief. it’s not even about being able to detach … but more about this unconscious adherence to something that you’ve being indoctrinated with. you know you shouldnt do it, but something holds you back … not for yourself, but for your parents …

and i know the next argument would be about “this is exactly the mindset Quran talks about” … well … i am not talking about religion and morality here … it’s more of psycology and fighting with something you’ve been taught to believe, but you dont …