You know this is in-sync with the ‘I’m fed up off’ thread series. Bear with me..soon i’m gona have exhausted all the topics in the book..khair..
How many of you feel like you are the ‘responsible’ person in the family? For e.g. you take the crap for the rest of your brothers and sisters. Or when somethings going wrong its you has to jump in and save. Or the fact that you were 3 inches taller than everyone else your age when you were young so people began treating you as an adult 5 years before it was due. Or your life has been so cluttered you need to take a step back and a breather…
Yes it sucks mehnaaz and being the baby of the family can be the best place most of the times :S yeah i know form looking at my sister :S i guess i got all the responsibilty bcoz i m the older one as in sisters. My brother is older than me but never the responsible type :S and my sis is well, the baby of the family…so who is left? well me… and i have even tried to give em some of the responsibitlites i have, but it doesnt work :s
Faisal bhai, oh really? I BET you weren’t the middle kid hehe..
Mehnaz sis, no they don’t. Eldest brother is a total kid Second eldest is just oblivious to everything, sister is toooooooo fiery and where i submit she fights…and fiery nature with relatives is always trouble..and then youngest bro is like crook
I TRY and delegate stuff to them but they’re just not well up2 doing it properly…ill always end up rescuing them or stressig whether its been done well or not and just doing it myself in the end .
passionate..mann..come here…lets have a we feel each others pain..
DD, I think in the end it will pay off in the sense that you will live the most peaceful and satisfying life out of all your siblings. At least that is what I hope will happen. :)
You shouldn't always submit though. You should stand up to for yourself now and then.
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Faisal bhai, oh really? I BET you weren't the middle kid hehe..
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No I was not. I am the youngest and even then had as much responsibility as can be. Although, alhamdollilah, never had too many problems to deal with. But thats appears such a distant history. My original comment was basically a reflection of the current state. Responsibility ain't all that bad. Speaking with the experience of having 3 kids. :)
DD
i’m the tallest at the moment in my siblings …though my younger brother is soon to be in that place …but i’m the eldest not only eldest child of my parents but the eldest daughter in law too …:)as my hubby is eldest in his family
i’ve been a bit bossy with my siblings but only with disciplinary issues …otherwise i’ve always been ‘responsible’ n in childhood was held responsible for everything wrong as i was considered the leader of all bacha party including cousins …n i think i’m quite used to it …i don’t feel it bad n somehow i like it many times when my siblings need my vote n almost always we win the case (in our parent’s court )
to me its sign of their love n it is such a pleasent feeling when u can help evryone around u…n u know when they face a problem they’ll turn to you
may be its not right …but i love pampering my siblings n i love to be responsible
I kno being the middle one can suck at times DD… although m the eldest but i can understand how u must be feeling… although m quite responsible myself (as m the eldest one.. duh :-/ ).. n i think i do take care of my bros well enuff… but when it comes to other stuff.. like making decisions or expectations… middle one usually gets neglected cos he cant b treated as a baby or all responsible for sumthin … so he gets the minimum share… i do feel that… so it could b a lil bit hard on him… but u kno what … i think its phase.. it passes with time… as soon as they r old enuff to make their one decisions… they take the cake… now relax.. … just wait for the right time.. n u can pay it all off urself…
Elder 2 are brothers…19 is sister.,..and 16 is bro
me too 
we feel each others pain..
