Halwa is a dessert made from various kinds of fruits, vegetables, grains and lentils. The ingredients in Halwa are grated finely and fried in ghee (oil) and sugar. Nuts and milk may also be added. Excess of any particular ingredient at the cost of others might have a bad effect on its over all taste. So, the key to making of a good halwa is addition of all the ingredients in the right proportion and mixed thoroughly in a container so that all the people to whom it is served equally enjoy and feel the presence of each ingredient added, and even the worst critic of your cooking is forced to accept the deliciousness of your halwa. Generally such a halwa is made when there is more variety of good ingredients added based on past experiences, but also being sensitive to the personal likeness of the particular guest to whom it is served. The major characteristic of a halwa is SWEETNESS which should be created by different means depending upon the way it is made, keeping in mind the individual health of the person to whom it is served.
Good manners is an attitude made from various qualities such as tolerance, smiling ability, kindness, politeness, *sincerity, prayer, modesty, love, friendliness, encouragement, decency, forgiveness, loyalty, inspiration…etc. *Excess of any particular quality at the cost of other qualities might seriously effect our relationship with people. So, the key to making of good manners is to have all the qualities in the right proportion depending upon our relationship with that person. Also all the qualities should be deeply absorbed in our personality so that all the people with whom we communicate with enjoy a sincere feeling in their heart, and even our worst enemy is convinced to become our well wisher. Generally the development of such a character and personality is due to selfless serving of people through wisdom, with the help of knowledge and experience, but also being sensitive towards the way of thinking and feelings of the particular person with whom we communicate. The major characteristic of Good manners is SINCERITY which should be expressed by different ways to make room in people’s heart no matter whoever we communicate with.