The quest for fair skinned wife

[Pisiform]

Re: The quest for fair skinned wife

@redvelvet

You could die before me you know…

DISLIKE … now I can actually do it! Thanks GS

[SaeedinPakistan]

Re: The quest for fair skinned wife

@chipships

Not necessarily, but looking down upon those girls who are same as your skin tone is what makes me wonder.

Having a preference for someone with a skin tone lighter than self doesn’t equal looking down on people your color. Though having such strict a preference could be called stupid if the person with the preference isn’t that attractive and that’s regardless of that person’s skin color.

[redvelvet]

Re: The quest for fair skinned wife

@chipships

she is nice, mature, decent etc etc etc on top of that I like her posts.

Merci beaucoup

[chipships]

Re: The quest for fair skinned wife

@SaeedinPakistan

Having a preference for someone with a skin tone lighter than self doesn’t equal looking down on people your color. Though it could be called stupid if the person with the preference isn’t that attractive and that’s regardless of that person’s skin color.

I was talking about those guys I have come across who prefer fair skinned girls, being brown skinned themselves, just because they don’t like dark skin toned “girls”. I have seen this guy saying “yeh tu kaali he” to some girl & I was in my heart like dude look at yourself, you prince charming!

I am not saying its cringeworthy when dark skinned guys prefer light skinned girls or vice versa, its just some guys who pass such discriminating & hateful remarks without looking at themselves.

[redvelvet]

Re: The quest for fair skinned wife

^Don’t worry chippy-chip…I get you. You are merely expressing marvel and disdain for the pot that calls the kettle “black”…lol.

[geminifromkhi]

Re: The quest for fair skinned wife

We tend to like people who are different. Most people in Pakistan/India are saanwlay. Hence the obsession with fair skin.
Anyways I wish people (read parents) understood that the most attractive asset anyone has is confidence. And if you are parading your daughter in front of total strangers 5 times a year, then you are just killing her personality. But what can these parents do, they just want to see their daughters happily married.