I am no way in position to pronounce someone’s destination to hell or heaven because of this.
If we following everything according to Islam then we should careful for this as well. We have so many lose end and it is just a least worrying element.
In any case, all i see Hadees encouraging wife not to refuse him, but have not seen anything pronouncing hell for wives doing this.
After all these things are belong to Hoqooq Ul Ibad (responsibility towards others), and this kind of matter always settle amicably next time, so do not worry too much about it.
So then it follows: no kiss → no sex.
In which case, men like jaanwar are out of luck
You want it. You are in the mood. You are gettin’ your groove on, and you are told the dreaded:
“I’m sorry, sweetie, I have a headache”
Followed by a prompt rollover in bed OPPOSITE your direction.
What do you do, gentlemen.
Thats why you ask BEFORE you start gettin your groove on.
kinda like checkin the weather before you even think about leaving the house as opposed to getting dressed and finding out its a rainstorm out there.
Chicken_Biryani:
someone once told me , if the wife is ready to give in every time , a man has a tendency to get bored of her, therefore its ok to refuse AKA dramatize sometimes to keep the man on his toes …
Not that im advocating infidelity by any means, but I wouldn’t blame any man whose wife pulls a stupid stunt like this.
Sex shouldn’t be so complicated after getting married. There shouldn’t be these games or drama, or even guilt.
neha
January 12, 2010, 6:23am
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Re: The Queen Has a Headache
^^agreed
Aimee
January 12, 2010, 12:45pm
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Re: The Queen Has a Headache
clearly it was a bad advise
NJMasti
January 12, 2010, 3:29pm
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Thats why you ask BEFORE you start gettin your groove on.
kinda like checkin the weather before you even think about leaving the house as opposed to getting dressed and finding out its a rainstorm out there .
ye that’s the best way to put it!
WitchDr
January 15, 2010, 6:43am
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You want it. You are in the mood. You are gettin’ your groove on, and you are told the dreaded:
“I’m sorry, sweetie, I have a headache”
Followed by a prompt rollover in bed OPPOSITE your direction.
What do you do, gentlemen.
Bring her a couple of Disprins, tuck her in and utilize the opportunity get a quick nap as well.
Re: The Queen Has a Headache
points upward now he’s a keeper.
WitchDr
January 15, 2010, 8:01am
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Not that im advocating infidelity by any means, but I wouldn’t blame any man whose wife pulls a stupid stunt like this.
Sex shouldn’t be so complicated after getting married. There shouldn’t be these games or drama, or even guilt.
But then 60% never have a genuine reason not to pull this stunt.
You want it. You are in the mood. You are gettin’ your groove on, and you are told the dreaded:
“I’m sorry, sweetie, I have a headache”
Followed by a prompt rollover in bed OPPOSITE your direction.
What do you do, gentlemen.
Strange questions u r coming up with???
I would just go to sleep f she ain’t well
U shud ask this question from a Molvi?
I bet u wud never ask this question again
You want it. You are in the mood. You are gettin’ your groove on, and you are told the dreaded:
“I’m sorry, sweetie, I have a headache”
Followed by a prompt rollover in bed OPPOSITE your direction.
What do you do, gentlemen.
I could try posting it. By the time you might get to read it, it would be modded and I would be banned.
Sara516
January 15, 2010, 6:10pm
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Re: The Queen Has a Headache
^