I am no way in position to pronounce someone’s destination to hell or heaven because of this.
If we following everything according to Islam then we should careful for this as well. We have so many lose end and it is just a least worrying element.
In any case, all i see Hadees encouraging wife not to refuse him, but have not seen anything pronouncing hell for wives doing this.
After all these things are belong to Hoqooq Ul Ibad (responsibility towards others), and this kind of matter always settle amicably next time, so do not worry too much about it.