the problem with this forum

[Deeba1234]

Re: the problem with this forum

@_Passionate

I honestly dont think that the advice that you get on the internet about relationships is something you should take seriously. Unless of course you are giving the entire account of events/both sides of the story. The advice you get is generic at best. Pick up a self help book or read a bs article about relationships on yahoo and you will get the same advice. People who know you well can only give you advice because they will most likely have your best interest at heart.

Quite a few of the genuine problems on here are caused by people they know.. ‘My mum is pressuring me to marry my cousin, she says who else is going to marry me’.. That’s hardly having their best interest at heart.. I think it’s healthy to get unbiased advice from ppl not involved in the situation..

I also find it interesting that some posters (not you) feel ‘threatened’ by advice given to others on GS.. Quite strange that they see free discussion as such a negative thing and then ironically talk about others having ‘agendas’..