Re: The Problem of the Loose Sister
Lose my temper? You know, get angry?
Re: The Problem of the Loose Sister
IF you are a brother who is doing the same thing with someone else sister, walk away!! If not, talk to her, perhaps give her the boys are after one thing speech. If caught second time, she probably won't (girls are supersneaky) then simply tell the mother and let her deal with it. Never raise a hand on a girl, no matter what!!!
Re: The Problem of the Loose Sister
Thank God for no sisters.
Re: The Problem of the Loose Sister
loose sister???????????????
is she made of sand or powder??????????????
;)
- Lose my temper
- Sit down and talk to her
- Tell her to show some self-respect
- Get a set of commitments from her that it won't happen again
Edit: Wait what do you mean by lewd and threshold exactly? Everybody has different standards so for someone it would be dancing with boys for others it may be becoming a stripper.
What the banned man said.
there was a girl in my community, who was majorrrly spoiled cuz she was the youngest n had two brothers who would do anything for her n were much older so they were very protective with her also. apparently, her mom caught her talkin to some guy on the phone like late at night and the mom ended up tellin one brother. they sat her down n talked to her...annnd took away her phone. within a week, her boyfriend got her a new "secret" phone and her mom gave her back the original phone. so now this girl had two phones to use however she liked and she did again and got caught AGAIN this time by her older brother (30 at the time i think, girl was like 18) and he apparently got the dad involved, they sat her down n had a family meeting etc n apparently she cried her heart out cuz "she has no life". finalllly when she got caught a third time, her mom took her to pakistan and got her nikahed to a nice daaktar who is also very good lookin. she still didn't change...and from what i've heard though community gossip apparently still met up with her boyfriend a couple of times in between her nikah n rukhsati when her parents just thought she was over a friend's house. btw, her husband came here after gettin his greencard and its been like 4 yrs since the marriage but hasn't cleared a SINGLE usmle step cuz of some "paperwork" issue and she's basically havin to work n support him. thats a huuge punishment to be stuck with someone who's not even tryin to get use out of his degree. anyways, now she can't really get a separation or divorce or anything cuz her reputation is already pretty bad in the community and she feels this obligation to save face for her parents after all she did to trouble them in her younger yrs :(
just an example of cases where physical abuse wasn't used but the family definitely resorted to emotional and mental abuse. who knows what really happened to cause them to take such a huge step but it happens alot, unfortunately.
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^ That's messed up on so many levels.
Sorry but how is slapping someone a nice way of explaining that something is wrong? So, if your brother had calmly explained to you that he didn't think it was appropriate for you to swear and he didn't want to hear it again you wouldn't have listened to him? If he has enough authority to slap you I'm sure he has enough authority to give you a serious talk. These things need to be explained in a reasonable, calm way...violent actions get you nowhere imo.
app ko kia masla hai.Jo bemar tha ous nai medicine kha li or wo theek ho gia
app aisay he ousay medicine say rook rehay hain.na lena na dena
app ka apna social moral setup hai oun ka apna hai.
app ko kia masla hai.Jo bemar tha ous nai medicine kha li or wo theek ho gia
app aisay he ousay medicine say rook rehay hain.na lena na dena
app ka apna social moral setup hai oun ka apna hai.
Some people are immune to medicine :)
app ko kia masla hai.Jo bemar tha ous nai medicine kha li or wo theek ho gia
app aisay he ousay medicine say rook rehay hain.na lena na dena
app ka apna social moral setup hai oun ka apna hai.
Can you translate that for me?
Emotional blackmail. Works like a charm!
I have had to confront both my younger sister and brother about the silly lil childish mistakes and we just sit n talk (the most violent I get is vaarbal abooze :@: )
booze? :@:
IF you are a brother who is doing the same thing with someone else sister, walk away!! If not, talk to her, perhaps give her the boys are after one thing speech. If caught second time, she probably won't (girls are supersneaky) then simply tell the mother and let her deal with it. Never raise a hand on a girl, no matter what!!!
i dont agree with that,,,if ur a bro doing the same thing to someone else's sister you sit ur sis down anyways or inform your parents AND mend ur ways
there was a girl in my community, who was majorrrly spoiled cuz she was the youngest n had two brothers who would do anything for her n were much older so they were very protective with her also. apparently, her mom caught her talkin to some guy on the phone like late at night and the mom ended up tellin one brother. they sat her down n talked to her...annnd took away her phone. within a week, her boyfriend got her a new "secret" phone and her mom gave her back the original phone. so now this girl had two phones to use however she liked and she did again and got caught AGAIN this time by her older brother (30 at the time i think, girl was like 18) and he apparently got the dad involved, they sat her down n had a family meeting etc n apparently she cried her heart out cuz "she has no life". finalllly when she got caught a third time, her mom took her to pakistan and got her nikahed to a nice daaktar who is also very good lookin. she still didn't change...and from what i've heard though community gossip apparently still met up with her boyfriend a couple of times in between her nikah n rukhsati when her parents just thought she was over a friend's house. btw, her husband came here after gettin his greencard and its been like 4 yrs since the marriage but hasn't cleared a SINGLE usmle step cuz of some "paperwork" issue and she's basically havin to work n support him. thats a huuge punishment to be stuck with someone who's not even tryin to get use out of his degree. anyways, now she can't really get a separation or divorce or anything cuz her reputation is already pretty bad in the community and she feels this obligation to save face for her parents after all she did to trouble them in her younger yrs :(
just an example of cases where physical abuse wasn't used but the family definitely resorted to emotional and mental abuse. who knows what really happened to cause them to take such a huge step but it happens alot, unfortunately.
holy wow :|
someone mentioned slapping...that is something that shouldnt happen at all...its unacceptable and totally wrong to slap someone today you slap ur sis tomorrow ur gonna slap ur wife and kids and maybe ur mom too ...so no no no never ever physical abuse or even long term emotional abuse...emotional kaalamail is fine though :@:
Re: The Problem of the Loose Sister
Send her back to Pakistan.
Send her back to Pakistan.
You have no idea what they do in pakistan :p
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And that's why I am ok with pendo sending his relatives back to Pakistan.
booze? :@:
i dont agree with that,,,if ur a bro doing the same thing to someone else's sister you sit ur sis down anyways or inform your parents AND mend ur ways
holy wow :|
someone mentioned slapping...that is something that shouldnt happen at all...its unacceptable and totally wrong to slap someone today you slap ur sis tomorrow ur gonna slap ur wife and kids and maybe ur mom too ...so no no no never ever physical abuse or even long term emotional abuse...emotional kaalamail is fine though :@:
If its wrong, then its just wrong. You can't sit and explain how wrong your sister is when you are doing the exact same thing. YOU fix urself up first and then you go around preaching.
Re: The Problem of the Loose Sister
well said