As I joyfully looked at my cousin’s wedding album I couldn’t wait to see how my own pictures turned out. I was wearing a bright hot red dress…thought I looked just grand.
Finally there I was…sitting next to the groom..smile looked great, ohh my new dress looked smashing, my black stilletoes and the black stockings adding that final touch.
Content at the overall picture I proceeded to look at the other photographs. Ahh..such a lovely one of the couple…I complemented the bride..what a blushing beauty…then I noticed the people in the background…no wait..I was one of them…no no wait…that was me..no it wasn’t…yes it was who else was weaing red..that was me…from BEHIND.
I had my back to the camera…my hair hung gorgeously half way down my back. and then..oh no..and then..came the part I dread..the hips..the buttocks…the thighs…no my dress wasn’t tight..but it draped over what was underneath…and there was toooo much of it.
It was ** (_______________________________________) ** THAT BIG!
I looked in disbelief…that was the worst picture any lady could possibly have seen of herself. I refuse to eat!
Most people who go on to lose weight (not that I am suggesting for a second that you fall under that category LK) often have one defining moment where they see themselves in a different light. More often than more it's an unflattering photo that does it.
For me, it was when I saw my clothes hung out on the washing line next to my skinny sisters......my first reaction was 'how huge are those clothes' before realising they were in fact mine.
chill woman...everyone loves a nice arse..and no i dnt mean that in the nasty sense. From the pics iv seen of you (not many as you ever PM me!) you look lush...in every single one.
you just want compliments...i can see right through you love :p
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chill woman...everyone loves a nice arse..and no i dnt mean that in the nasty sense. From the pics iv seen of you (not many as you ever PM me!) you look lush...in every single one.
you just want compliments...i can see right through you love :p
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LOL! No I was really horrified..honest!
But thanx for the compliment..keep em coming ;)
Atlanta - Fat cow I am..lookin for a good sturdy bull ;)
okay. I totally hate to admit this myself but i’ve a somewhat similar problem.. and at least on one ever made any comments on you?.. i’ve been commented by a couple of people. First time it came from some relative and i was so awestruck, left me speechless. Need i say how silly i felt for not replying back?
ever since then, if anyone has anything so say about my appearance, i tell them ‘I love myself the way I am, thank you’ and trust me it works so well.. not only on others but myself too. Right now, i’m just way too lazy and busy to worry about my looks so, don’t feel that bad
For me the m,oment was when i tried fittin into my fave pants and i couldnt. What kind of a eatin monster had i become. I had to get back. Im on my way. Its a long way back.. :sigh:
so, don’t feel that bad 