who always blame others for his own faults and cannot see his is ?
i mean how should you treat him ?
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goes well with the israeli and us government.
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should be abandoned
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he's not alone.
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yea god does not test any1 useless
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?
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will point out always his or her mistake and convice him or her u r real mistaker why u blaming me will always tell him or her in a polite or sometime in a harsh way
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^ good point
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give him taste of his own medicine...
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agreed with nia_khan
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wrong
Often its useless. I know some one like that. I tried all the tricks and debates I had up my sleeve. Several others tried too. Didnt work. :D Now I just dont talk about things of which I know he will start blaming me or any one else I know. If he did wrong and failed to understand reason then its between him and God
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Im not fond of these kinda people...they will never admit it no matter how much you say it...best to leave these kinda people alone...I cant be bothered with them.
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:)
Would you say the same for Umar Bin Khattab (r.a.) when everyone thought that he will never become muslim. One day a woman was leaving Mecca and a man met her on the way and asked her why she was leaving. She answered by saying that she was keaving because of the harsh treatment Umar (r.a.) gave them just because they have become muslims. And this is b4 Umar (r.a.) became a muslim]. So the man said "stay, perhaps Umar might accept Islam". To this, she said "The donkey of Umar will become a muslim b4 he (Umar) does". But what happened? Not only did Umar became a muslim, but he became one of the best muslims and was given bisharat of jannah in his lifetime. (And yet this didn't stop him from following Allah's commandments. Lets look at us now, we do not even know if we are from among ppl of Hell or Paradise and yet, we continue to ignore Allah's commandments).
So we should never despair of Allah's mercy. Who knows, maybe if you keep on telling that person in a nice and polite way about Islam and his mistakes, he will realize and then become righteous. And then as long as he will live, not only will you get ajar for leading him to the straight path but also the ppl he led straight. I mean, wouldn't you like some1 to guide you if you are wrong. I surely would like some1 to guide me straight if I was on wrong path and if I was disobeying commandments of Allah. So therefore, you should try to advise him sincerely. It is not you or me that will guide him but rather Allah.
:D
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^we are not talking about Islam here....thats totally different....in terms of giving dawah and the way a person should do it is a totally different thing.
we are talking about other aspects of life where a person does something wrong....and they always blame the other person. for example husband/wife relation.....sometimes one partner always blames the other one and makes them feel bad when its not even their fault.
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i try to avoid people like that
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we should be patient
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we are talking about other aspects of life where a person does something wrong....and they always blame the other person. for example husband/wife relation.....sometimes one partner always blames the other one and makes them feel bad when its not even their fault.
Interesting but You cannot leave out Islam for a minute and try'n solve problems without it. Islam is complete religion and gives u the solutions. As a muslim, you have to follow Islam in each and every aspect of ur life. You cannot choose Islam for one problem and then leave out Islam for another. Islam is not a one-day picnic thing where you come, enjoy urself, and then leave.
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You are right , this other person has a very bad habit indeed. :nono: