The Past Discussion

[PyariCgudia]

Re: The Past Discussion

@Sehrysh

Probably one the trickiest and most sensitive topics to discuss.

What I hate and what I have encountered is the absolute hypocrisy of: “You tell me all about yourself?” I’ve nothing to tell, which is actually met with disbelief because apparently everyone has to have a past and if you don’t have one, you must be lying

And then when I *dartay, dartay *asked the same question back, the response I got: “But why does my past matter, judge me for who I am now.”

I always found asking questions about someone’s past made me feel intrusive and I hated broaching the subject, yet the guys rarely if ever had the same takalluf with this question and wow, some of the questions were just horrid.

Girls i know had similar experiences. The whole well-i-can-sleep-around-but-if-you-held-someone’s-hand-i-need-to-know-about it type.