The Pap

[SID_NY]

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@ekumunng

What use is a princess if she is not spoiled?

I can tell you few uses … but then it’d turn out to be my last post in GS

[ekumunng]

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@SID_NY

I can tell you few uses … but then it’d turn out to be my last post in GS

Me too has wild imagination

[LP]

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@partyslims

Jewish American Princesses

Basically they come from very wealthy families and are spoiled by their parents and feel very entitled.

Ahan.
Thanks

[Rems]

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@SID_NY

I like Japs more.. esp the spoiled ones

Japs reminds me of jalapeño

[SID_NY]

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@Rems

Japs reminds me of jalapeño

And jalapeno reminds me of the hot sauce our gyro guy gives.. both give same jittery burning effect for two hours after my next visit to bathroom..

[Rems]

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@SID_NY

And jalapeno reminds me of the hot sauce our gyro guy gives.. both give same jittery burning effect for two hours after my next visit to bathroom..

TMI.. Honestly.

[BigdaNawab]

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no idea what this discussion is about

[Monk]

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Interesting, Zafra. Going by your observation, every Pakistani man must be an MB. .

Men in Black

[Zafra]

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@Theorist

Interesting, Zafra. Going by your observation, every Pakistani man must be an MB. You know Mamma’s boy.

I am 100% and you know what look at some of the Guppan’s blogs here and they all coddle their kids Its what you women do. PAPs create momma’s boys.

[Theorist]

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@Zafra

I am 100% and you know what look at some of the Guppan’s blogs here and they all coddle their kids Its what you women do. PAPs create momma’s boys.

You women? I don’t have kids. Kids should be momma’s ladlayy. Not thirty year olds.

[Zafra]

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@Theorist

You women? I don’t have kids. Kids should be momma’s ladlayy. Not thirty year olds.

Why not? Why does showing affection for one’s mother irritate you women so?

[Theorist]

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@Zafra

Why not? Why does showing affection for one’s mother irritate you women so?

There is nothing wrong with showing affection for your mother. It’s insensitive to do it overly in front of a woman who has left her family to be with your a$$. It would be even if the couple doesn’t live with any set of parents. Unfortunately, in our culture it is even more apparent because a woman is expected to leave her family and is even considered “kisi aur ki amanat”. If this wasn’t such a problem, why do SO MANY men have issues with how much their wives see their moms or how long they stay over at their parents’ place even though men get to live with their parents and see them all the time?

[Zafra]

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@Theorist

There is nothing wrong with showing affection for your mother. It’s insensitive to do it overly in front of a woman who has left her family to be with your a$$. It would be even if the couple doesn’t live with any set of parents. Unfortunately, in our culture it is even more apparent because a woman is expected to leave her family and is even considered “kisi aur ki amanat”. If this wasn’t such a problem, why do SO MANY men have issues with how much their wives see their moms or how long they stay over at their parents’ place even though men get to live with their parents and see them all the time?

Why is it insensitive? Just because a man gets married he has to stop loving his mother?

Also please note that the kisi aur ki amanat issue is perpetuated by other women, not men.

[Theorist]

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@Zafra

Why is it insensitive? Just because a man gets married he has to stop loving his mother?

Also please note that the kisi aur ki amanat issue is perpetuated by other women, not men.

Loving someone and showing too much affecion are two very different thjngs. A woman who gets married and leaves her family to go live with her husband AND his mother also loves her mother very much. It is insensitive to be showing too much affection to your mother if she can’t be with her own like you can. Nothing to do with being a man or a woman.

This is a really simple thing to understand. I am not going to argue for the sake of arguing. Thanks for playing!

[Zafra]

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@Theorist

Loving someone and showing too much affecion are two very different thjngs. A woman who gets married and leaves her family to go live with her husband AND his mother also loves her mother very much. It is insensitive to be showing too much affection to your mother if she can’t be with her own like you can. Nothing to do with being a man or a woman.

This is a really simple thing to understand. I am not going to argue for the sake of arguing. Thanks for playing!

No it isn’t. Because you are essentially saying that since you are married a guy needs to change his entire dynamic with his mom.

[Theorist]

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@Zafra

No it isn’t. Because you are essentially saying that since you are married a guy needs to change his entire dynamic with his mom.

yes, he does because she did way more than what he will ever be willing to do. The least he can do is be considerate of how it must make her feel when he is still acting like an Amma ka laadla and she can’t even go see her own mom without your permission. I am obviously talking about Desi culture where women leave everything behind to come live with the guy and his family. It is uNfair to the women who give up everything they know to come live with their husbands only to witness that their husbands still want to sleep in their amma’s jholi. Yeah, no.

[Zafra]

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@Theorist

yes, he does because she did way more than what he will ever be willing to do. The least he can do is be considerate of how it must make her feel when he is still acting like an Amma ka laadla and she can’t even go see her own mom without your permission. I am obviously talking about Desi culture where women leave everything behind to come live with the guy and his family. It is uNfair to the women who give up everything they know to come live with their husbands only to witness that their husbands still want to sleep in their amma’s jholi. Yeah, no.

This is exactly what is wrong with Pakistani women. Specifically with some young married women. They come in with the idea that they have done so much because they married the guy. No gori has that attitude problem. Goris get along with their MILs or not they don’t come in with the retarded notion they have given up on their homes and family and thus are better than their husbands.

Such archaic and narrow-minded sense of superiority is why some marriages don’t work.

[Guppshupper]

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@Theorist

yes, he does because she did way more than what he will ever be willing to do. The least he can do is be considerate of how it must make her feel when he is still acting like an Amma ka laadla and she can’t even go see her own mom without your permission. I am obviously talking about Desi culture where women leave everything behind to come live with the guy and his family. It is uNfair to the women who give up everything they know to come live with their husbands only to witness that their husbands still want to sleep in their amma’s jholi. Yeah, no.

Nobody stopped her from joining the husband in sleeping in the jholi of the mom.

[SeaBee]

Goris don’t come with that notion because they probably left home for college, as did their counterpart goras, unlike our desi grown a$$ men, most of whom live with their mamas even post-marriage. These PAPs you lovingly refer to have been living with their mamas until they were expected to come live with your’s, hence the expectation of being shown some sensitivity.

There is no comparison with goris/goras.

[Zafra]

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@SeaBee

Goris don’t come with that notion because they probably left home for college, as did their counterpart goras, unlike our desi grown a$$ men, most of whom live with their mamas even post-marriage. These PAPs you lovingly refer to have been living with their mamas until they were expected to come live with your’s, hence the expectation of being shown some sensitivity.

There is no comparison with goris/goras.

Then don’t ask for a separate home. Joint family system it is