The Only Brother of Many Sisters

[gulab_jamun]

Re: The Only Brother of Many Sisters

@Ashy2010

I know my expectations well. Thats why I am not proceeding with this. They were referred to my mom by someone and initial conversation was done over the phone for 4-5 times during which we know we might not be ok with this and thats why not proceeding. My mom tried to convince them to bring the guy too along with the sisters but they kept on insisting the sisters and not the guy. We thought it would be good to let the guy see me also in the first visit and would save both the families from another visit if any of us are not ok with it. My mother tried to convey her messages subtly without being rude but they don’t seem to understand. So its better not to waste each others time.

Im glad you discontinued it! I think these people know EXACTLY what their doing. If it were my parents, they would tell them on the phone, that that does not seem munasib, and that if this relation is to go any further, then the rest of the family is more then welcome to come, but at this point in time no more then three people, one of which has to be the groom should be at the house.

A man’s job is to provide for his family, regardless of how many sisters he has, and it is completely unfair to you that they expect you to be supplementing his income to support your own family.