The Only Brother of Many Sisters

[Ashy2010]

Re: The Only Brother of Many Sisters

@Guac

@ Ashy2010 -I don’t like the whole rishta process as it is but I doubt all of the sisters coming over know you feel like this or are aware of how inappropriate it may seem

@Xtron

Respects to you Ashy. I am not saying anything about what you want in terms of rishta you’re looking for. My sincere Dua is that..Insha’aallah you will find what you are looking for. What i am saying is, clear the expectations before something makes you feel uncomfortable before potentials coming to see you. That is all. Again, this is just a suggestion.

I know my expectations well. Thats why I am not proceeding with this. They were referred to my mom by someone and initial conversation was done over the phone for 4-5 times during which we know we might not be ok with this and thats why not proceeding. My mom tried to convince them to bring the guy too along with the sisters but they kept on insisting the sisters and not the guy. We thought it would be good to let the guy see me also in the first visit and would save both the families from another visit if any of us are not ok with it. My mother tried to convey her messages subtly without being rude but they don’t seem to understand. So its better not to waste each others time.