The Only Brother of Many Sisters

[Ashy2010]

Re: The Only Brother of Many Sisters

@Xtron

^Ashy, sure good enough. You do know your situation much better as you are better judge in this respect. However, lets talk about the last paragraph for little bit. Arrange marriages ARE like this. Girl is definitely not a show- case but she becomes the excitement hope and very positive aspect of human emotions. If you feel un-comfortable with so many people coming to see you then, make it clear for potential rishta before they come. That way you are clear as well as they are clear. And I am saying this for you and your potential rishta as well. Lets be fair here Ashy.

I had been through many rishta visits and educated families are considerate enough to only bring 3 and maximum 4 persons when they visit for the first time. Bringing 6-8 people for the visit is strange. Anyways, things don’t seem to proceed there for me.

I believe in thinking hard before the marriage decision but once the decision is taken, I believe in marrying once for life. If I think I am not strong enough to live in a particular situation after my marriage, I should rather not proceed with a proposal rather than marrying now thinking that I will be in a position to contol the guy and take him away from his sisters and family when they need him most. It will be selfish on my part then. So its better if I be frank now and not proceed with this as I am not a very pious girl to have tolerance to live in difficult situation which I see in this particular proposal. Hope they get the best bahu who has enough courage and tolerance to live in their situation and does not snatch their ONLY son and brother from them.