sadia18
February 4, 2014, 6:39pm
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Re: The ones that are divorced…any regrets?
I experience difficulty in social situations/interactions , I just don’t tell everyone that I am not married anymore , I really do not wish to go into discussion on this topic with everyone and honestly our society is so screwed up they feel that they can treat divorce people anyway they like.
In family/relatives I have seen mixed behaviours some are kind , some literally look down upon me , they can come up with most stupidest questions and comments.
I have seen my daughter being ignored by most now that they know that her father is not in her life and 100% of them are my rishteydaars .
about making friends I haven’t made any new friend since then in real life but my few friends from past have really come forward as strong support and they are just a phone call away and they really care for me and my daughter.
life is not easy being a divorcee , you get tough time even with your own family but my own experience is that now I atleast get a few moments of happiness but when I was married I had just stopped smiling and being happy , it was worse than hell and surely I am better off now so I have no regrets !
Aww that’s so sad and I agree, sometimes out society can be really unfair and illogical at times. But Allhamdulillah, your happier now. All that matters is that you and your daughter are happy and healthy. The rest can go screw themselves.
