I am branching this thread off of the “your ideal other half…” thread
So, ladies and gentlemen how do you know someone is “the one?”
Hi, i was the one who created the other thread :p
And... by the looks of it I seem to be the only one who has found the one, hence why u got no replies he he.
Anyways mine was very simple, just felt 110% right. We instantly clicked, altho he was the total opposite of me! He is the most genuine person I know and thats what I love about him the most :D
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I don't know as I haven't found 'the one' yet or he hasn't found me yet :D
Will update when that happens :) I do however have a mental list of what I think will work for me...that'll probably go out the door though !
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the one for me who made the effort to travel half way across the world to rescue me from this place.
Don't know what my life would be like without him in it.
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You'll feel it in your mind, body and soul :). You'll love them for who they are, even those annoying strands/elements to their personality will seem utterly adorable/irresistable.
In return they'll make you feel comfortable and special when you are just being yourself.
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Simple.
If you could not find another one, then this is the one :)
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I think. Its a lot to do with how easy it is. Things should come into place. I have not found "the one", being a great proponent of the Grand-marital-relations-as-compromise "Theory", myself..
But of all the romantic encounters I have had. Some have been overwhelming infactuations that fade inevitably (mostly infact), others have grown slowly - from friendship - and there has been a third way, in which there was an attraction coupled with easiness of old friendship.
But, all of this scholarly opinion is the result of old victorian novels and media ideals (and some life experience) and as the lattermost is limited due to my years.. what do I know?
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I was at a park, and saw this guy - and when I saw him, I knew I was going to marry him. I just knew it in my heart.
Then I left, without knowing his name and not even talking to him.
Couple of months later, I joined a halaqa, and guess who turns out to be the one in charge?
....and the rest is history!
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^ hey..hey..the whole park bit wasn't added in your blog entry :p that's a very important part! :D
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acha? i thought it was...but yeah, very important...and hubby even felt the same way! lol...he even remember what i was wearing..i am very impressed. lol
I was at a park, and saw this guy - and when I saw him, I knew I was going to marry him. I just knew it in my heart.
Then I left, without knowing his name and not even talking to him.
Couple of months later, I joined a halaqa, and guess who turns out to be the one in charge?
....and the rest is history!
Awwww, cute!
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I use to think that you just know ... but m not too sure anymore
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I identify with 'sir pa seengh' .
totally agree with that
I met my hubby for the first time in high school and even at that time felt like he’s the one never really talked to him that much didn’t see him for the next few years as i moved the next time i saw him when his family came to my house for my rishta for him (turned out his parents were friends with my parents so i knew his mom just didn’t know that was her son)…it turned he had liked me since high school as well but never said anything so after that we got to know each and everything and everything just clicked
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When he's still here after 20 years.
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afshi, swtangel16, and akh12 omg so cute.. you guys have total love stories...
but I have to agree with libranrulz... I am not sure...
hitchki, you speak very profound words! I have a question,you said everything comes into place... like comes into place with the parents? or no drama come into place? because as far as I have seen someone always have a problem with something or an other... you know what i mean?
sidra don't give to much thought when it happens you will know the more you think about it the more complicated it will get love should not require that much thought besides it shouldn't be complicated until a few years after the wedding lol :)
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Guy may run away if she says "you're the one"
Answer to the question: "Usually the one after many!"
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not together yet...but looking at him and just talking to him...something inside me always says - this is right, he's the one...and that feeling is too adamant to shake :)
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I definately agree with Chavi, when your able to tolerate a person's annoying habits then you know it must be lurrrve ;-) or maybe just an infactuation.. Depends if your wise enough to spot the difference.
P.S - the best situation is when the feeling is mutual... :)