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And you have no idea who Tolkien is? The US education system is indeed horrible!
The guy who wrote Lord of the Rings and the Hobbit. Not to mention the Simm....something. I can never spell that title.
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ohh:smack: lord of the rings ..u could have said J.K.Rowling or Enid blyton
I would’ve known tht:@:
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That hack? Hell no. That is not literature. You even mention Twilight and arggh!
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LP did not study in the USA CM!!!
LP....that is why I said that when you get to know some1...when u talk to them all the time..you will know if he is the one or not...life will put you through some situations that will show you if the person you are getting to know is that person you want to spend the rest of ur life with or not....
The people who get married and divorced..as to my knowledge do things foolishly and in a hurry....or maybe they never had a chance to get to know each other before they got married...and finally give up and get divorced.
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@ lp I have already answered !!!!
only because u dont like the answer u cant say I am not eligible...
Enid Blyton was nice…
Aaliyah bhai there r many ppl who love each other for 4+ yrs and get married and then get a divorce…so it need not be in a hurry or foolishly.
Maybe the feelings were wrong.
Or Maybe these feeling change with time?
awwww:hugz: i was kidding & 
u know tht
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Yesssssss.....feelings dooooooooooooo change over time.....if you get married to some1 doesn't mean that everything is gonna be easier after that...it only gets more difficult...you need to keep working on it...specially you need to keep the flames alive...coz if the flames die...your love for each other dies...and slowly slowly..everything that mattered to you at the beginning would not matter any more.
Most important thing is NEVER TAKE EACH OTHER FOR GRANTED!!!!
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people change after shadi !!
people get bored after shadi !!
people take each other for granted after shadi as my qabil friend said
people fight after shadi ( no one in the world say they didn't fight )
priorities change
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People change. Even if you think someone is the one for you, that's never the case. I might as well not go into a marriage with any expectation.
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hehehe…well…don’t we fight before shaadi toooooooooooo 
Priorities becomes the kids…but you should never forget each other..always make time for each other…
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^I think it's more fair to get to know a person for who they really are and establish your expectations accordingly then. That way my expectations from my future husband will be more realistic.
please 
I totally agree with you on this one…I am still getting to know him..and I am still discovering new things 