The moving out of the in-laws house conversation

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Re: The moving out of the in-laws house conversation

@BellaShabba

Me and my husband moved out after 5 months (ongoing issues) but like your mother in law my one was the same also. She just liked to mollycoddle. Events taking place led to us to make the move. My husband is the one who told his mum he wants to move out. She did blame me for taking her son away etc lol but ultimatley it was his decision and me being his wife i supported him.

They are his parents he knows them better. Let him speak to them my hubby was nervous also but it had to be done. And thankfully it has allowed us to be able to get on better and be able to be more independent. His parents were almost holding us back in a way

If your hubby explains to them that if they want to look for another house thats fine their choice but you both would need to be nearer your work. And the nature of your job doesnt allow you to just commute. Be firm and polite but he does need to speak to them to support you and this move

What is your relationship now with them? did they every try and speak to your privately? is so how did you react?