Re: The more you accomodate the more you have to give....
Try getting a soft night light for her and make sure it stays on her side of the room, not yours.
Try taking her to community programs like a Dars or something of that nature. You have to take her in the beginning to get her used to it and then let her go on her own.
Get her involved in volunteer work at the masjid or have her babysit a few kids at home.
Help her develop a hobby.
You have to keep her busy. Activity is good for any age and I highly recommend not just telling her to do stuff...do it with her to start off and then let her go on her own. The reason for this is once parents get a little older, they stop doing new things. They dont take risks or try something different like you and I would. It scares them. So you do with her to show her she will be okay.
Hope this helps.