The Lovely Bones

There was a book review printed last week, in Pakistan’s DAWN. i wasn’t going to post this up for diff reasons, but i think this is worth putting up. The DAWN link doesn’t work anymore b/c it’s outdated, it will link you to their most recent book review. But still posting it up incase anyone wants to confirm it or whathaveyou. The DAWN link is regarding her book, “Lucky”. The other review is regarding her first book, “The Lovely Bones.” People with weak stomachs are warned. Don’t read ahead. Believe me.

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“The Lovely Bones”
“So it was that, from heaven, I watched my father build a tent with the man who’d killed me.”

Our narrator Susie Salmon is already in heaven. Murdered by a neighbor when she was only fourteen years old, Susie tells us what it is like to be in her new place. “When I first entered heaven I thought everyone saw what I saw. That in everyone’s heaven there were soccer goalposts in the distance and lumbering women throwing shot put and javelin. That all the buildings were like suburban northeast high schools built in the 1960s.” Later she learns that heaven is whatever you truly want it to be and, sometimes, other people’s version of heaven intercepts with your own.

Susie meets another girl, Holly, on her third day in heaven and they end up sharing their ideal home — a duplex. Franny, their intake counselor, helps them adjust. As Susie gets used to living in heaven, she watches her family and friends on Earth as they come to the realization that she is gone forever.

Her murder occurred on December 6, 1973; back at a time when people still didn’t believe things like that could happen. Unlike later when “kids of all races and genders started appearing on milk cartons or in the daily mail.” She watches as her parents begin to grasp the un-retractable horror that has entered their lives. At first they try to reassure themselves that “nothing is ever certain;” that Susie is just lost out in the rain somewhere, and alive. But there is no speculation on our part, Susie tells us right off the details of what happened to her.

As the days go by and the evidence mounts, her parents still refuse to believe; that is, until the day Detective Fenerman tells them that all evidence points to their daughter’s death and that the police will handle this as a murder investigation. And in that moment Susie sees each of her family members retreat separately into him or her self as each tries to come to understand the devastating news. Her father walks past his wife sitting on the living room carpet unable to comfort her and heads for the study to cry in the “deep ruff of the fur surrounding the dog’s neck.” When the neighbor tries to bring four-year-old Buckley home, nobody answers the doorbell. It is evident that something has changed in the Salmon household.

Susie worries most about her gifted and petulant sister Lindsay. Lindsay is only one year younger but still is not told directly about what’s happened to Susie; instead she hears telephone snippets and bits of conversations between her parents and the police. After hearing her father describe Susie’s features, she asks her father not to lie to her, so he doesn’t; but even answering her question, he can’t face the truth of his words. Susie watches Lindsay sitting alone in her bedroom trying to harden herself. As the story unfolds, it is clear that Lindsay carries the hardest burden, because no one will ever be able to look at her and not think about Susie. By losing her sister, Lindsay is in danger of being robbed of herself.

It is insight like this that made me just love reading this novel. Perhaps it is because Susie is narrating from heaven that she has a true and believable omniscient point of view. Because she cares, all of the characters are explored equally and their motivations, reactions and actions are clearly and evenly relayed. Not that she isn’t capable of curling her lip in heaven, nor is she so accepting that she doesn’t try to make people see things, especially who her murderer is. And for that matter she does watch her murderer. But it’s watching her family and friends as they begin to heal where the heart of the story lies. She’s there when her father comes to the realization that the immortality that should have come with bearing three children was not as assured as he thought; and he reacts by pouring his love into the living. Something different happens in Susie’s mother. She gave up a scholarly life to have a family, so when her first baby is murdered, it just brings her up short. She goes into a vacant auto-mode, daydreaming about the time before she had a family, even wishing she didn’t have a family. Meanwhile Susie keeps watching, hoping that they can feel her there and that a little bit at a time they can be more like the family they used to be.

Rest of review posted here.

DAWN article:

http://www.dawn.com/weekly/books/books8.htm
“The lucky survivor” reviewed by Muna Khan, 21 March 2004

When Alice Sebold was 18, and a student at Syracuse University in upstate New York, she was raped by a young man on her way home. She was a virgin and the rape was brutal; he used his fist, beat her, sodomized her, urinated on her face and then made her kiss him goodbye. After she made it back to her dorm, she called the police and was medically examined. When she returned home, her father asked if she would like something to eat. She replied, “That would be nice considering the only thing I’ve had in my mouth in the last 24 hours is a cracker and a ****.”

Notwithstanding the shock for Sebold, it was important he realized that “I was still the sarcastic kid who talked bodies, and that was not going to change.”

Sebold first came into prominence with her debut novel, the Lovely Bones, which shot to the top of the bestsellers list and made her a literary celebrity. Her memoirs of her rape, Lucky, had received little notice when they were printed three years earlier but that all changed. For a quick recap, the Bones is about a 14-year-old girl, Susie Salmon who is kidnapped, raped and beaten to death by her neighbour and narrates her tale from heaven. It is therefore not hard to draw parallels between Salmon and Sebold, both victims of rape.

Once in heaven, Salmon forges new relationships with others just like Sebold did with Tess Gallager, a professor of poetry who taught Sebold and turned out to be the person who encouraged her to write a memoir of her rape and also accompanied her to a preliminary hearing. In fact Gallagher encouraged Sebold to write a poem with the first line being ‘If they caught you’.

The book is titled Lucky because in the tunnel that Sebold was raped, a girl had earlier been murdered. Sebold learns this from the police officers who tell her that unlike the murder victim, “she got lucky.” In a strange way, perhaps Susie’s story in the Bones, could have been that of the girl murdered in the tunnel who wasn’t lucky.

However, unlike the Bones’ character, Susie, who ultimately died, Sebold is a survivor. At a time when writing memoirs is being seen as therapeutic, Sebold is quick to point out that this is not true for her. She sees herself as a survivor of rape who also wrote a violent book. She wants to make sure that she is not seen just as a rape victim.

It is hard not to see Sebold using her memoirs as a form of therapy given that such memoirs always shoot to the top of bestselling lists. Recently in the US, Trisha Meili published her book I Am the Central Park Jogger, a memoir of her rape, a violent act that shook the country in 1989. Meili was an investment banker when she was jogging in New York’s Central Park when she was brutally raped, sodomized and beaten so badly that she lost 80 per cent of her blood. At the time, Meili’s name was not made public, and she was always referred to as the Central Park Rape Victim, hence the title of her newly released memoir. Sebold, like Meili, believes that the anonymity awarded to rape victims should be challenged as it allows the victims to believe that their rape is a stigma, that they have been “ruined” when that is not the case.

Surviving rape, according to Sebold, is heroic. In fact, during her rape, Sebold focussed on surviving the ordeal, an instinct she believes automatically kicked in. She did everything her attacker asked her to do. “He held my life in his hand,” she writes in Lucky. “Those who say they would rather fight to the death than be raped are fools. I’d rather be raped a thousand times. You do what you have to.”

Sebold filed charges against her attacker and then returned to Syracuse to complete her studies. One day when she was shopping, she ran into her attacker, who, while passing by her, said, “Hey girl, don’t I know you from somewhere?” He was arrested soon after. Sebold’s trial details are similar to what we witness in Hollywood movies where the rape victim is further victimized and hounded. Sebold’s lawyers told her that she was an “excellent rape witness” but even then had to endure a brutal cross-examination. The only saving grace perhaps is that Sebold was able to secure a conviction, which is rare for rape cases around the world, particularly in the US.

After the conviction, the turning point for Sebold came when she read the book Trauma and Recovery, in which she was quoted, based on an article she’d earlier written for a newspaper. What shocked Sebold was that she was quoted in the “trauma” portion of the book, not the “recovery”. Perhaps this proved to be the critical point in her life, from where she pursued her career actively as a writer.

The book is a recommended read and at parts it is even funny, but it is not for the faint hearted. While Sebold does not write to shock, it is nonetheless disturbing. It is haunting and you are likely to become engrossed as it is a captivating read. Her final line in Lucky is perhaps her best: “I live in the world where the two truths co-exist, where both hell and hope live in the palm of my hand.”

I read this book pretty recently and loved it. It sounds like it'll be quite a gory book given the subject matter but it's so beautifully written and its interesting watching the world through the eyes of Susie.........how her parents cope with their daughters murder, how she watches her murderer befriend her father. I also liked Susies depiction of heaven and how she doesn't realise where she is but see's all her old pets and relatives and can't figure out why they are there.

Will have to read Lucky at some point too.

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quoted from the book....
"Those who say they would rather fight to the death than be raped are fools. I'd rather be raped a thousand times. You do what you have to."

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quite a debatable topic aint it????
why dont u open up a thread somewhere and see what ppl have to say about it....

reminds me of a signature used by a guppie that was so much protested against....
u know that one "when rape is inevitable.........."....

Armughal, i never said i agreed with that. :~) With all due respect, i don't think i would like this thread to focus on that tangent issue please if you don't mind.

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**I read this book pretty recently and loved it. It sounds like it'll be quite a gory book given the subject matter but it's so beautifully written and its interesting watching the world through the eyes of Susie.........how her parents cope with their daughters murder, how she watches her murderer befriend her father. I also liked Susies depiction of heaven and how she doesn't realise where she is but see's all her old pets and relatives and can't figure out why they are there.
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oh so you have read the book, Shahreen? i want to read "Lucky" but i don't know if i have the stomach for that.

I hear that the rape scenes in Lucky can be quite traumatic to read which is why I read The Lucky Bones first. But since you started this thread I am quite interested in reading Lucky so might have to dig it out.