The love of alone-ness

[KiteRunner]

Re: The love of alone-ness

I generally can't stand to be alone for long periods of time but even I have emo days and prefer the inside of my room to the party that everyone's going to. I suspect it's the same for men, it's why guys go out to play football or golf or whatever and girls go to shop and spas, alone time, without it you may literally bite each other's heads off.

[yeswekhan]

Re: The love of alone-ness

Story of my life. sigh

[ShahreyarKhan]

Re: The love of alone-ness

so basically you are saying you are the chipku type?

@PyariCgudia

I’m used to the lonliness now, but honestly appreciate it when family is all chipkoo, and around all the time.

It’s healthy. That’s how families have lived traditionally across cultures. It’s only in the west now that we ask for space, and such.

I’m tired of space. The gap needs to be closed. Kinda like an anion gap.

Haha. Sorry, couldn’t help myself.

[yeswekhan]

Re: The love of alone-ness

I'm used to the lonliness now, but honestly appreciate it when family is all chipkoo, and around all the time.

It's healthy. That's how families have lived traditionally across cultures. It's only in the west now that we ask for space, and such.

I'm tired of space. The gap needs to be closed. Kinda like an anion gap.

Haha. Sorry, couldn't help myself.

You think that way because you live alone. What I started living with family again (after uni), the whole family being chipkoo was a novel feeling. Your mum fretting over what you wanted to eat every meal, your laundry being taken care of, no bills to worry about. But soon after you start missing your independent lifestyle again. I'd be probably be talking differently though had I been living alone right now, the grass is always greener on the other side.

[Reha]

Re: The love of alone-ness

I don't mind either way

[BarbieCue]

Re: The love of alone-ness

I think it’s our responsibility to let the parents/spouse where we’re going, when we’ll be back, who we’re with etc so I don’t think we should be making an issue out of it. I know I won’t like it if my future vota didn’t call to tell me he’d be late or if he got up all of a sudden and left home without telling me where he was going. Uski space ki tau aisi ki taisi!

Life changes, inspiron. It will change after marriage and it will change especially after childbirth… no, you will not be able to sleep whenever you want or go out whenever you want. Singlehood is awesome for obvious reasons but when we start a family of our own, both the husband and the wife have to adapt to the changes in lifestyle with responsibility.