Hmmmm i’m not married yet laikin inshallah soon, it’s a love marriage now but in start it was just friendship, trust and fun that we both had.
Like some one else allready mentioned, a guy loves u when you will love his parrents like he does, and believe me that’s so true!
I call his mum aunty, but see her the same way i see my mum, and when i’m with her, and hubby to be is near me, i can “feel” the love from his eyes 
Trusting each other is also really important, a girl shouldn’t have any secrets for her hubby of hubby to be, one thing i learned is that always tell the truth no matter hoe difficult it is, in my case he doesn’t like it to talk about problems whenever he get’s a bit annoyed or angry he won’t call, he won’t reply and if he does reply it will be short. I really have to ask him what the hell is wrong and what happened. If he doesn’t want to tell me then it is his choice, but after a few hours when he’s tempered he will talk by himself.
Maybe some of you will find me old fashioned but like most of you know here n europe we are modernised, hubby to is also modern but still more “pakistani” in nature, and really love that making compromises is very important i think. I don’t know what rest of you all think but for me, and my relation with him is comunication, trust, fun, love for each other, love for parents, and most of all spending time with eac other most important thing ever i will inshallah stay always with him because i know what he really feels for me, i won’t pick my stuff for example after a aruement orso…
Now sue me:blush: