serafina; 90% of paksitnais get an arranged marriage. soemtimes even when like guyz date aorund n stuff, tehy end up getting an arranged marriage cause they not successful in finding lets say good match. i even know of soem girlz who have like dated but hten they end getting an aranged marriage bcs they either got hurt or things didnt work out. or some ppl just dunt find a true luv so they must resort 2 arrangd marriage.
i think luv can come after marraige. once ur living with the perona nd spending time with them, it gorws. y do we uv our families? bcs we live with them. we didnt choose our mom n dad n sis n bros..allah did..but we still care 4 the m so much cause we live with them. luv grows with time i think. the more association u have with ppl the more u luv em.
i know my dad he always used to stay at his mamoo's house even more than his parents's house nd he got really attached to his mamoo, mammi nd cousins. he even is 2day eeven thou wev been living so many yrs in canadna. the more u stay iwth ppl, the more u get attached 2 them.