Re: The looser
Yes!
This is what we told him, we were very angry for divorce not matter how horrible the wife was (she was horrible), but he should compromise for sake of children.
I suspect he was not in the mode to compromise because of the other girl.
Now we told him, he is free to remarry anyone except that person, if really do it he need to leave the family.
Stupid bugger, he lose children, now he going to lose family just for sake of this not so beautiful girl who happened to be his staff.