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…but they are very pretty Sara516 very pretty. You’ll be stunned if you see’em forget the skin color, that’s just an inferior mentality but the hair and eyes… 
Uffff
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err..
i am a firm believer that if a person doesnt respect his/her own parents.. cannot possibly respect anyone else.
khair good luck with ur wife hunting.
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Well i have respect and love for my mother and so does she...so lets hope i get lucky...
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Would you want some fool to be screwing around with her the way you screw around with other girls?
How about you take you mum with you to the clubs and let some stranger grind with her?
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NBN too long answers 
i will reply laterz .
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PCG…
firstly i dont screw around with girls…i get to know a lot of them…and those who i get on with i develop things with…and yes development of a physical kind as well as mental…damn…
So rather than make me seem like some kind of predator…every action i do is seen in a derogatory manner…
You speak about how i would react to my mum grinding with a stranger…and you make grinding sound like such a disgusting thing…girl its just dancing…and its a fun thing to do with someone you like…i knew the girl i was dancing with…i liked her…so whos the stranger?..
Now i wont use the mother example cos thats weird but if i had a sister and she met loads of boys…i would have no problems with it…if she was a ho who slept around with loads of boys i wouldnt appreciate it…id try and get her to appreciate intimacy as something to share with someone special rather than see it as f*****g…you cant seem to tell the difference thats why you always attacking me…
Just cos you have met loads of boys and girls doesnt make you a ho…its not easy to find that needle in the haystack…so at times you got to dig through the hay…doesnt make you loose…in your mind if you have met members of the other sex and been intimate with them than you are a vile and despicable human being…girl not all things work out…so you move on to the next one…learn from your mistakes and hope that things work out the next time…
Again id like to say that just because you do things differently…havent had sex…havent met boys…doesnt make you a better person than me and doesnt mean that you will be a better partner than me…but in your arrogant, self righteous way you genuinely believe that you just are that special…and that everyone is below you…
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No one is saying I'm a better person than you. What I'm saying is get another journal to boast about yourself in.
As if it wasn't enough that this forum is a carbon copy of seventeen magazine.
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Look...for the ****in last time...im discussing a concept...and at the end of the day things which i discuss tend to emanate from things that i experience not hypothetical fantasy...so in this case the thread is about the jealous friend who ruins everything...she has done it to me and she does it to others...
Stick to the topic cos im getting bored of replying to your attacks....and if you dont want to discuss the topic then shut up and visit another thread...
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You can dodge my questions all you want. You're still a kid full of hot air posting on Life1. The Mr. Bombastic-type.
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Lol what questions did you raise?...and iv dodged what exactly...is this another one of those fantasies of yours?...
For Gods sake shut up...just go and start a new thread talking about how bad men are even though they have done nothing personally to you...
Your threads are hypothetical and are just your own perceptions of OTHER peoples reality...
You suggest i boast becuase i discuss my own realities...
Like i said...if you dont like me i dont care...iv posted a thread so stick to the topic at hand...
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You dodged THIS, kid :
**Would you want some fool to be screwing around with her the way you screw around with other girls?
How about you take you mum with you to the clubs and let some stranger grind with her?**
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Acutally no he didnt, he said he felt weird about it being his mother, but gave a fake sister as an example, learn to read! 
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Thank you Sara :)
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EXACTLY - he felt it being weird about his mom...
Therefore he didn't answer the question. I didn't ask about a sister - he doesn't even have a sister, so for him, its psychologically easier to answer the question.
He's not able to answer the question about his mom, because he would not be comfortable seeing his mother in such positions.
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Nobody is! And if he had a sister, i bet he wudn't feel comfortable with it either...
leave the baccha alone... seriously thereare ppl who r more bayghairat on this forum n deserve ur wrath, n NbN is not one of them :D
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Oh my god PCG…what a stupid comment…
Its weird cos its my mum…im sure that makes perfect sense…lol…when you are married and you have a sex life…its still weird to think about the fact that your parents have a sex life…you view them as your mother…its not too comfy to think about your mother in such a manner…
Lol if i started asking questions about your parents sex life i dont feel that you would be too comfortable viewing them in that way either…
So therefore i discussed the idea that i have no issue with grinding…its just you have a problem with it…and whilst i see it as a fun thing to do with a girl i like…you see it as a vile way of manipulating slutty women…
So think whatever you want…if you want to discuss the topic then discuss the topic…which is JEALOUS FRIENDS…if not then stop posting and slandering…
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Thanks again Sara :)
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I find his posts highly amusing and educational - tells me what the youth of today are getting upto :D
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Naughty By Nature, I agree with you. Alot of girls are like this. even though they claim to be good friends but when they find out you have some1 and they havent....they do get jealous.
it even happened within some of my own friends, the guy that insha-allah im planning to marry in masha-allah quiet good looking. a friend of mine wanted to see his pics....I showed them to her and after seeing them she was just quiet. I was expecting her to at least comment...so i asked her what she thinks and she says "yeah, he's ok". and thats it. anyway, even when talking with girls about the guy....they do try their best to make me feel like theres something wrong with him....for example if I said to my friend "I just got his letter"....she'd say to me "oh my god!! he wrote you a letter?! wot a girly thing to do". she'd just try to totally put me off with things like that. and sometimes laugh at him too.
so Ive now decided I wont tell anyone about me and him or anything about us at all. I dont want anyones opinion or advise on him cuz it only matters whether I like him or not. no1 else has a right to say anything (except for my parents). and I advise other girls to do the same too....whatever there is between you and your husband (or some1 ur planning to marry)....keep it just between you and him. that way its more special. theres no need to discuss with friends what he's like/his mistakes/his good things...cuz they dont need to know. as long as u and him are happy, try to keep the 3rd person out of it...cuz it only causes problems. even if u have arguments etc....talk to some1 older instead (some1 u trust) and they are likely to give u better advice. a jealous friend is likely to make the situation worse by putting hatred in ur heart. she'd probably say "he did that to you?! oh my god! i cannot believe he did that...I wouldnt take that if I was you....etc.etc"
so ive decided that things will stay just between me and him :)
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Impulse...its a shame to hear that your friends havent been supportive of your husband to be...but im glad to hear that you know what the deal is...and have seen that your friends are jealous...and havent let that effect what you have with your husband to be...
If only more girls were intelligent like yourself...
But I think its a shame that you dont have a neutral party who you know you can rely on for objective advice...we dont always know whats best...and i can say that i have two or three close friends who i genuinely feel give me advice that benefits me...not them...and that is neccesary...its good to have amn outlet sometimes to discuss your issues cos you need advice at times...
Impulse...Insh'allah your impending marriage goes to plan and lasts long...i hope you do have some friends whom you trust and can seek advice from...cos you will need it at times...but like i said...im happy to hear from someone who sees people for what they are...thats a good start and i pray your marriage works out for you...