Sara516
September 11, 2005, 10:30pm
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Re: The Jealous Friend…
Impulse:
Naughty By Nature, I agree with you. Alot of girls are like this. even though they claim to be good friends but when they find out you have some1 and they havent…they do get jealous.
it even happened within some of my own friends, the guy that insha-allah im planning to marry in masha-allah quiet good looking. a friend of mine wanted to see his pics…I showed them to her and after seeing them she was just quiet. I was expecting her to at least comment…so i asked her what she thinks and she says “yeah, he’s ok”. and thats it. anyway, even when talking with girls about the guy…they do try their best to make me feel like theres something wrong with him…for example if I said to my friend “I just got his letter”…she’d say to me “oh my god!! he wrote you a letter?! wot a girly thing to do”. she’d just try to totally put me off with things like that. and sometimes laugh at him too.
so Ive now decided I wont tell anyone about me and him or anything about us at all. I dont want anyones opinion or advise on him cuz it only matters whether I like him or not. no1 else has a right to say anything (except for my parents). and I advise other girls to do the same too…whatever there is between you and your husband (or some1 ur planning to marry)…keep it just between you and him. that way its more special. theres no need to discuss with friends what he’s like/his mistakes/his good things…cuz they dont need to know. as long as u and him are happy, try to keep the 3rd person out of it…cuz it only causes problems. even if u have arguments etc…talk to some1 older instead (some1 u trust) and they are likely to give u better advice. a jealous friend is likely to make the situation worse by putting hatred in ur heart. she’d probably say “he did that to you?! oh my god! i cannot believe he did that…I wouldnt take that if I was you…etc.etc”
so ive decided that things will stay just between me and him
Gosh, wud u shut up bout ur bf, he’s ugly and girly okay!!! JK JK JK!!
Waisey thas a gud thing to do, keep ur mouth shut… the only ppl who deserve to know anything r ur parents, friends will just screw everything up. But at the same time, sometimes we r blinded to our partners bad habits, and its ur job as a friend to tell them the truth, as much as it would hurt. It’s all abt instincts i guess
