The Importance of Helping one's wife at home

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I agree that women are better off in some jobs than men. But then there are women who are not good at this. But if your religion absolutely wants you to do household work what do you do...

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lets not worry about the exact words, the wisdom in this narration is that there needs to be shared responsibilities in houehold.

why debate minutia?

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Anyone who helps his wife in her domestic affairs obtains a reward of one year of worship equal to the amount of hair on his body.
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Now that sounds like something God would say. It makes so much sense God would use the hair on our bodies to measure our rewards. Too bad for Asians or others who aren't lucky enough to be so hairy like most Arab men.

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seminole quit whining, start using rogaine..

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look islamically ususally you get reward for akhlaq e husna and that comes naturally. no where does the hadith say what a women can do or cant do its about the men helping her out. you get extra points for being nicer to your parents, you get rewards for breast feeding and all the other things that any decent human being will do by instinct. loads of women are working but are also pulling their weight around in the house as mothers and wives, there are exception in men that merely enhance this notion. How many super fathers are there making and earning and then doing more than the mother in house? very small number. but there are heaps of single working mothers compared to single working fathers.i'd say this hadith is about getting rid of the mentality that women arent doing any hardwork staying in the house taking care of the family ya what most people in pak say sub hi kertay hain.

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bhai maray why do you stick your nose where it doesnt belong? read your bible, for a satisfied christian you spend alot of time with us folks. surely churches are missing you somewhere.

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A-rabs have nothing on hair compared do Greeks and I-talian gooks...

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i would as it will get me so much more time to be around her.

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I dunno abt Allah's rewards, but when I help my wife once in a while, I do get rewarded in the bed that nigh itself !!

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PCG, he was helping Bibi Fatima, who was also doing domestic chores.

Your sarcasm is only valid if one can show the example that Hazrat Ali was cooking food while Bibi Fatima was chatting with the neighbors