Allah states, “Perhaps you love something but that is bad for you and perhaps you dislike something but that is good for you”.
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I think I’ve read it but do not recall it where. I will appreciate if a reference is provided and if it’s in Quran that will be a great favor, indeed.
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Indeed very true but I still believes that sincere duas can really make a difference and turn the tables around.
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I think its a hadith. I'm not sure myself, but I know its true, and is authentic.
The reason i posted this is because this is very true, Me, You, and Everyone of us, should be Aware of this.
Be aware. Let things happen as they are. Do not kill urself and commite suicide, DO NOT complain to Allah.
Good things Come in due time, depends on how much u turn to Allah.
Thats why, be aware of this message from your lord. and no matter HOW mUCH HARD it is for u to accept this way of life, or accept it, you must remember its Allah's will.
Be aware. ANd be PAtient.
Inshallah :) it leads to a good prosperous life.
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thanks for putting that quote....that is soooo true I swear. And its really weird how u put that quote up and I was thinking that a few days ago.
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Then that thing if it does happen in ur life, was something good for you to start with. 
BUt for things that are bad for you, we’ll they are bad for u, and no dua can change that.
Because, ALlah wants good for you, and he will never let Bad get to you.
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Thanks
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I agree
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Yes.
This is somethign we fail to acknowledge.
ALLAH is so merciful and forgiving and caring, when it comes to his slaves, that no matter what evil they may have done, he forgives, and guides, and blesses in the end.
NO matter how bad life seems, no matter what happens. He brings you happiness from places you cud have NEVER imagined.
He is almighty right?
So lets trust him.
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I just think that most ppl are scared for change and to let go of something they have....And thats why we have to pray and trust Allah's judgement...
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^ exactly
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When I say dua change things it certainly depends on Allah Ta`ala do decide that the thing is good or bad. But as per my info "dua takdeer ko badal daite hai"
anyways, the original line of urs stand equally valid and encouraging. becuz some thing which was not good for u was not awarded to u. and this is the time when u are reminded that some one is there who is incharge of all the things happening
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Beshuk!
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hmmm nodoubt
cuz haar haare cheez may ALLAH nay bhaatere rakhe hote hia
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yaar anwaar bhi ye
ek hadis se qudse hia uss may nay line le hia
wo alii nahi hia HADIS (FAFOOM) BUKHAIRE AND MUSLIM DONO MAY MIL JAYE GE …
AYE IB NE ADAM EK TAYRE CHAHAT HIA EK MAYRE
PASS TU SUPURED KAR DAYE TAYRE CHAHAT KO JO KAY MAYRE chahate HIA
to tujay wo bhi ata karoon ga jo marye chahate hia
aor agar tu us kay barkhilaf gaya to tujay thakha doon ga is may jo kay tayre chahate hia
phir ho ga wahe jo mayre chahate hia*
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The Hardest thing to accept in Life....... to see your LOVE, dying infront of you... .....
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nonetheless, there are Many....
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Of course. Sometimes we humans tend to get greedy and run after something that may be harmful to us in the long run and ignore small things that may be beneficial to us in the long run. Allah knows best and he does everything for a very good reason.
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Jazak'Allah :-)
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Aah, so true in many ways. :( Thankyou for posting.
Allah Hu Akbar :)
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Im glad so many took notice.
I've seen plenty of people, complain, attempt suicide, and what not, just because they lost one thing, or someone, and they thought life was over.
Who created everything? Feelings to that "someone"
your lord.
So trust him.
Jazakallah to you all for understanding it :)