Re: The first year of Marriage
Alot really depends on the husband and the wife .. Personally , compromising is the bit that really saves you the hard work. I am learning to compromise on space, on finances, on wishes..... the biggest being , to keep quiet when he is angry ! thats the hardest part !
So yeah its the hardest time in a relationship, but how well you forget the arguments /cultural clashes and move on and enjoy the rest of the time, really depends on you ...
As a woman I do feel like I have had to change myself drastically in order to keep things happy at home and with the families ... I am happy I did them , though they were tough ... and I have realized the more I compromise for him, he responds back in every possible way and is becoming more and more caring ...
Happy times never come alone, they always come with some bad times too ... we just gotta learn to be happy in happy times and be resilient in bad times...