The Final Say

[Niksik]

Re: The Final Say

@R.A.W

At times a couple might not be able to develop an understanding in order to come up to an agreement regarding a certain issue/matter they are facing. Both have their logical reasonings but their views are contrasting. Now either of the two views have to be implemented. Would you just keep on trying to convince your spouse by highlighting the drawbacks of his/her views, even though he/she doesn’t seem to grasp it easily, or would you let him/her have the final say just in order to finish the conflict/argument.

I know it depends upon the situation and many other factors. But the point is that at times one spouse, despite of being convinced that he/she is right, only gives up because he/she accepts the other spouse to be the final decision maker because of any reason (education, forceful personality, too sensitive…etc).

Is it good or bad ? How should people proceed in such situations ?

When such a situation arises in our home, we usually go over the pros and cons of each person’s idea, and go with the idea that has the most pros.