Girls have this gripe about how the famous tea ceremony and the moon dikhaee and all are very humiliating and degrading…
I don’t know if they are, but I believe they are indispensible…Because if at the moment of the ceremony the girl is feeling humiliated, the man is having a panic attack…
The girl he is looking at, if she becomes his wife, will be an unavoidable part of his life…How will she be? What is her temperament? Will she care for me in my times of need? Will she be quarrelsome? e.t.c and so on…
I am sure you all have heard that what a man looks for in a woman is his mother…I don’t know if that’s true…But if it is, why a mother?
The mother is the most ingrained personality in any human being’s life…Well, normal ones at least…It would be logical that what the man is looking for is cognition of traits that he has been trained lifelong to do…
Let’s say a guy’s mother was a gentle soul…Loving poetry and so on, naturally the guy would grow up seeking a soulmate that he can most relate to…How would it be for the poor sap if he were hitched to a quarrelsome shrew? His life and that of the shrew as well will definitely turn into a nightmare resulting in an ugly divorce proceedings and what not…
I believe, as much as you hate it, as much as you abhor it, these ceremonies are indispensible and very crucial to a guy…
So ladies, don’t come a rockin’ when the guy comes knockin’…
