Re: the ex, the girl, and the new guy
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Who knows why the “ex” is acting how he is? Only he would know. “ex” behavior is impacting the girl’s life, but her decisions should not be based on it. reasons for “ex” behavior is irrelevant for girl’s future
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It hurts to lose a pet dog or cat, or a parrot, or maybe even an iguana after having the familiar companion around. Its normal to fall in love many times with many things/poeple in the lifetime, but marriage is more practical and has sensible criteria. Love doesn’t create happiness if other practical things are absent. So, don’t put too much meaning and seek direction in “feelings”. Feelings can be manipulated and dissipate
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No need for psychoanalysis. Avoid over-analysis based on no knowledge. This has no impact on girl’s future.
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Girl will move on when she makes an informed decision to do so. Otherwise she will continue to fool herself and make future relationship complicated and messed up as well.
man this girl sounds like a real special case. I feel bad for the “new guy” already.