Re: The Evil of Men's Immoral GAZE & DEEDS
I dont think there was ever a time in history or a place on the planet where men did not look at women. Its the nature of the beast, yeah? The thing is to raise your sons to be respectful of women and raise your daughters to dress modestly.
I think many will disagree but I personally dont see anything too wrong when a man admires a beauty. As long as its done respectfully...theres a big difference between casting an admiring glance and staring with ogling, drooling leers. All of us, men and women, enjoy looking at beautiful things.
If your man sees a beauty at a social gathering, you'd be fooling yourself and be expecting the impossible if you want him to simply not notice her! Again, it comes down to behaving respectfully. If the beauty is appreciated in the way that a fine painting or a rainbow would be appreciated, where's the harm? The harm is when she's leered at and thats reflective of their upbringing. If a boy is taught that a woman who causes men to look at her is deserving of whatever bad behavior the men choose, well thats where the problem begins.
I guess the only way to avoid this whole situation completely is to have every female dress in those big head-to-toe burkhas. I'd much prefer the teaching of respect. When the burkha method is used, then any woman who is not hiding under a tent is fair game for whatever behavior the men choose and this not only perpetuates the problem but is completely unfair to women, teaches them that they are to be hidden away.