hahah lol love your question. I can understand what you mean.
I think once the wife starts doing the cooking, dishes, full time job, giving birth to baby, cleaning up the house - she realizes there is not much love left cause she is a maid.
The guy on the other hand is tired of her demands to buy things, vacations, demands to help around with diapers and other chores - so he too fizzles out of love
now you see- they are both out of love and are looking more like “working in arrangements”
hahahahhahahahahahah
(sorry this was just time pass - didn’t put any thoughts to it!) 